I had to reschedule my appt for tomorrow I so hope she'll check I've been having lots of contractions the last couple of days
I would ask. My midwife waits till 39 weeks to check but I had pain in my stomach when I saw her at 37+4 so she checked to make sure it wasnt labor pain. Im hoping she checks again today since ive been having false labor for 5 days now.
I wouldnt find it rude n I'd honestly be a little mad if I havent been checked yet and only 5days to go :/ I would definitely ask.