baby daddies ..

[mandyleighb89]

I made a post awhile ago about how my boyfriend probably isn't the dad of my baby.
I told him. He's okay with it. He knows that he & I didn't sleep together when I was ovulating. (We're in a open relationship.)
But I don't know what to do about the other guy.
He told me I was lying about being pregnant.
So I just wait till the baby is born and send him a court ordered dna test and child support order?
Or should I send him ultrasound pictures and updates?

[bonitagirl747]

If you can survive without the child support then maybe skip all if that and live your life with your boyfriend and be happy? If he isn't paying child support then legally he has no right to our baby unless he pushes the issue, which means he has to pay child support. Just a thought, I'm sure the money would be nice. But not having the headache of dealing with the sperm doner might be nice

[mandyleighb89]

Thanks ladies

[Meandchewsbaby]

I would send him ultrasound pictures for now and see if he comes around.

[2ndBabyDueFeb13th]

Ou could do either or, but definitely the court stuff. Its up to u whether u want him to see the ultrasounds and stuff

[BritNyabuto]

Let your bf be the baby's daddy...DNA doesn't make a father, love and being their through pregnancy and at 1am feeding... He is the baby's father

[mandyleighb89]

Oh yeah Mommy. My bf has been wanting to be a father as long as I've known him. He's the one making sure I have everything I need and buying me pickles at 1 in the morning. We're even getting married.

[mommybrandyozuna]

DNA test he didn't believe u so y should he get to share good moments with u! Is ur bf going to be there for u and baby??

[mandyleighb89]

Sometimes I want to say "screw him"for doubting me.
But then again I do want him to be around his baby.

[Huni_b]

Give the other guy a chance to be a daddy and get to know his son, provided he wants to. its only fair to ask him.
if he doesn't react favorable,  the court order, dna test and child support is always an option.

[Caszie]

Seriously? The worst thing you can do is force someone to accept a baby. If he doesn't want it. Fine. Is your boyfriend okay with you having this baby? Are you still together? Is he willing to help? If he is willing maybe ask him to be involved.

[bryceT317_3]

No updates.  Court order. And I would not give the baby his last name.  Worst mistake I ever made

[ThY_MrS_Decker]

I would send him ultrasound pic's and see what he says...if he smarts off or says stupid stuff then just wait until the baby is born and send the DNA test order.