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Love or hate?

I hate being pregnant. I hate being fat, I feel so ugly. I can't even remember the last time I had sex with my husband. He hasn't tried like he used to and when ever I do he doesn't want to. I feel so rejected and disgusting. I hate the discharge and not being able to sleep without almost peeing myself. I hate being tired. I haven't felt pretty in weeks. I would cover up all the mirrors of I could. I used to want at least 2 kids but now I never want to feel this way again. I wish these last 45 days would speed up. I already love my baby girl but I am NEVER going through this again. Sorry I had to vent.
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I'm so sorry to hear you feel that way things will get better soon just stay joyful for your little one. Your creating a life and that's a gift god gave woman a man will never do that. Keep your head up I'm sorry your man isn't more supportive. God Bless You.
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I kinda feel the same..I have acne and I have NEVER had a single bump before not even in my teens.. I feel in wanted by my boyfriend and extremely fat!! Thank God I'm getting my tubes tide just after 1 .. (Yes tied, clipped and burned)  But it makes me happy to feel my bby girl move!
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8637947 tn?1410931035
Go get your nails done have a blow out done and go to a make up counter have your make up done and get a cute outfit yes it would be maternity and you only have 45 days left. I am not one to do my hair or make up on a regular basis, but it was emphasized to me when i got pregnant how important it was to feel good about myself while pregnant. I have done my hair and make up more pregnany then 6 months prior. Im sure your husband still finds you beautiful but is afraid of hurting you or the baby. I knownmy husband feels that way. Good luck lady and pamper yourself a bit.
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:( sorry you feel like that. But I understand I would be telling lies if I said I love it all. I am thankful and feel blessed,  and love my baby girl so much already. But for me its not about the looks, and my hubby well I should carry a stick to fight him off...lol but I miss being as active as I was and doing all the thing I can't do know like, paint my toes, mow my grass, and simply walking without my feet swelling...but I guess its all just part of the journey. We will reach the end and all will be a memory. We will have our beautiful babies and think it was all worth it♡ hang in there mama♡
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