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6918915 tn?1395932871

Bad dreams and insecurity

I'm 37 + 2 and the last few days I suddenly feel so needy and insecure with my fiancé. I'm so emotional all day, but I manage to keep it in check when he gets home from work so he doesn't think I'm crazy. I even have bad dreams that he's flirting or cheating on me. Last night I had a bad dream that we went to a store an he sent me off to look for something and when I found him he was talking to some girl and holding her hand. Stupid! And he definitely isn't cheating. Hes not that kind kind of guy plus he works 12 hour days and comes home covered in mud. Idk if my hormones are suddenly going crazy again cuz I'm almost at the end?
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7607165 tn?1395780125
Omg me to its horrible I feel sad when I wake up..I hate those dreams.
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7818752 tn?1401061308
I had a dream like that last night to lol i even woke up kind of mad at him but he is amazing he would never. I tell him my dreams and he laughs i think it's part of pregnancy .. We are more vulnerable physically and mostly emotionally.  our subconscious fears get the best of us in our sleep........
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8101930 tn?1420001456
I Have dreams like that all the time and I wake up so angry at him or crying.  I know he would never cheat on me but man those dreams seem so real.  
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6918915 tn?1395932871
I'm glad it's not just me! I haven't felt this way until just lately so I'm wondering if that means I'm having a hormone surge because I'm almost done. I haven't mentioned it to my fiancé because I feel like he already sees how insecure I feel about my body and its probably a turn off. I asked him the other day if he misses me not being pregnant.  He said no and that I look great he just misses the self confidence I used to have. They just don't get what it's like to be in an ever changing body, with most of the changes being negative lol
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9658230 tn?1406070138
You have all kinds of crazy dreams while pregnant, I have woke up mad and had to convince myself brittany it was just a dream. I also accused him of cheating every minute with no evidence.  I had to stop because it was pushing him away and causing arguments. I really hope I don't start accused gain because I would feel so stupid afterwards. So u are not the only one
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8526246 tn?1405601876
I was going thru that not long ago! Its a horrible feeling but def has to be the hormones. I talked to my husband about it bc I was so upset by it. Good thing is yes were at the end. Try and stay relaxed momma and hope all gets better. Try some sleepy time tea to relax you for bed time.
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9310828 tn?1403011088
Yesssss! Its hormones Lol I do the same to my husband. He's so supportive, always come straight home, calls me on breaks, and I still find it in my head that he's cheating. He let me keep his phone the other day Lol just to prove nothing. And I know its nothing. But those hormones always suggest other wise Lol Your not alone
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I'm so sorry youre going through that... I have been having similar feelings randomly through this pregnancy and I know tough it can be... Almost over though, and you'll have a beautiful little distraction for you and hubby to love very soon..  That's what I keep telling myself
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