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Magic....

I'm pregnant with my 3rd child and pregnancy really has a magical effect on people around me...my friends mainly they just magically disappear into thin air. Its truly amazing. It's happened with every pregnancy aswell and when I'm not pregnant they just reappear literally from where ever they have been hiding.
I was just wondering if any other pregnant ladies have this magical power too ;-) x x
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My thoughts exactly. Annoys me. Thanks ladies for sharing :-) x
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We don't need friends like that do we... well can't even call them friends really can we... yeah it is annoying when you may have text someone and they don't reply yet they have updated their status and your like... well you got time to do that so why couldn't you text me back..??
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Yes. Today my best friend told me shebwas done with me. All because of some little tiny reason that doesn't even matter. And it was me who got mad at her for something. Then she called me pregnancy hormonal(I didn't even yell at her I asked her justva question about something she said) and didnt talk to me for two weeks. Today ibasked of she was done ignoring me and she said she's not ignoring me she's just done. And other than her I have no friends. Just my wonderful bf which is fine but I'd like some girl friends at least 1. Gah. I want to cry and punch someone.
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100% like you. So busy and haven't had 5mins to themselves yet happily on fb or some other social networking site...... (she says typing this lol) but u know what I mean x
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When it comes to friends though are most of you the same as me..  you are always there for everyone whether it be meeting up... at the end of the phone when they need you but as soon as you could do with some one to talk to they have better things to do or don't even offer their help???
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I have it to !! Its also my third pregnancy every single one same thing.
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7058746 tn?1393435420
I do!! I have that magic!! They seem to think just because I'm prego I can't do anything. Ha!!! If they only knew!!!
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@momma_berry thats it. I feel like I'm getting interviewed by the police with some friends they dont come up for air lol. Its a shame really.x
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Lol I have this same kind of magic in my life! Experienced the same thing when I got married. They obviously werent that good of a friend in the first place and its one less person asking me questions so Im not complaining. Quality NOT quantity!!
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Glad I'm not alone ladies. I know when my baby girl comes they will all be at my door wanting a cuddle but they soon know what its like to want won't they :-) lol x
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Yes I have that kind of magic too!!
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I'm having this magical effect with one of my "bff" but i could say I've grown closer to the other two that stuck around!
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Lol I thought I'd bring some humour to it :-) I'm thinking the same where ever they are they can stay there. I've always be there for all of them both good and bad times esp throughout their pregnancies. Us women have got to stick together after all.x
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Yeah you are not the only one. Only mine don't re-appear AT ALL. It is sad really... its definitely true when they say you find out who your friends are...
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8526246 tn?1405601876
Lmfao! Omg! Your too funny! I'm going through the same but am glad I have one friend that has stood by for what ever, so shows me who my real friends really are I guess.
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Lool that is funny but sad too.. I didnt have this with my frnds but I guess u need to magically keep themh dissappeared. I mean what r frnds for if they r not with u through these times.
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