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7074486 tn?1389932822

Miscarriage

I got my results bk from the doctor and I did miscarry. I am beyond emotional actually crying as I type... I thought after my miscarriage in Dec. That this was the baby I was ment to carry. I feel like im letting my husband down even tho he said im not. As a women and wife I feel like I should be able to give him another baby. Idk whats my next step in my journey idk if I should just give up cuz I dont know if I can take another loss.
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thanks ladies! We r gonna be running more test in two weeks to see if we can figure something out. Hopefully i get some kind of answers.
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My sister went through this.  She had 4 miscarriage before she got pregnant with her daughter. They think it was because get thyroid wasn't functioning properly.  Anyway don't give up hope!
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6202880 tn?1380332653
I'm so sorry! I lost 3 before this one. I know how it feels to think you just can't take it again and you wanna give up! Don't make that decision right now. Give yourself some time to heal. Have you gotten your progesterone checked? Low progesterone is a common cause of miscarriage. Also, consider checking for a blood clotting disorder. We are suspicious that is what my problem is and I've been on baby aspirin and omegas this time to thin my blood. So far everything is going very well. I hope you get something figured out! That feeling of not knowing why is so frustrating! All the best to you!
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Wow so sorry for ur loss. I don't really know u but ur definitely in my prayers. I know no words can ease ur pain. But it's all in gods hands. Again so very sorry for ur loss. Plz take care of urself especially emotionally.
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I'm so sorry... don't give up. Your time will come.  Just have faith. It does take time to heal.  No one is to blame. Remember that....
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thank you ladies for everything ur words mean more then u know and prayers are so gratefully appreciated.♥♥
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So sorry for your loss. . Keep your head up and keep trying.. my aunt had 5 miscarriage ' s and 3 gorgeous children.. every th ing happens for a reason.. good luck!
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Wow sweetie I'm so sorry for your loss, I know how that feels, I'll been praying for u and if is meant to be, you'll have another baby
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7249185 tn?1399663162
Sorry i feel u babymama dont give up!!!
I had missacariage too at two months i belive two years ago..now im having a baby boy miracles happen trust on God!  Start taking vitmins
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So sorry for your loss, god bless.
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7406493 tn?1453999212
I just want to say im so sorry for the loss of your baby,  it saddens me to hear this I know that pain all to well & I'm always praying for a woman not to feel that pain. I pray god gives you the strength to get well soon & mend your broken heart. I also pray you dont give up and have a successful pregnancy in the near future. Stay prayerful hun.
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thank you ladies im trying to see the light in all this but its just so hard. Time will heal..
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7791326 tn?1396488062
I am so sorry. Miscarriages are devastating. Just know that God has those babies wrapped tightly in His arms and is watching over them. Never lose hope... God has a plan for every heart ache that we go through... he never wastes a hurt. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
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7923133 tn?1396626966
Oh my,., i remember you posted  that you had spotting and seen this bad news just now, im sorry to hear what happened, i hope everything goes well, those babies are your angels now. Keep head up and dont lose hope.
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I came back to check on you, I saw your earlier posts. I'm so sorry for your loss, do not give up! It will happen, stay positive. Sending you love & light♥
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thanks Candy ur such a dear for checking on me today. Im gonna get myself bk in zumba and giving my time to help the community kids to get fit and hope that one day not planned just by gods hands I will be pregnant again. I will follow u on ur journey Candy... And everyone else thank you for ur kind words a support!
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Petrosdoll, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I've just met you but I hold you dear to my heart and pray that you can heal from this with your family's support. It touches my heart to see all of the support today on this post. I pray that you don't give up. Again, I'm here if you need a friend. I'm sorry that I don't have the right words to make things right, but I know the Lord has plans for you. Stay strong for not only yourself, but your beautiful family.
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My friend has that exact same thing. She had to start getting shots basically as soon as she finds out she is pregnant.. Thankful your Dr is looking into everything more.
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7074486 tn?1389932822
She said my cervix and everything looked good but thinking its my level of hormone  think its real low when I carry. I go for a follow up in two weeks to discuss futher test.
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7107205 tn?1397611293
So sorry hun. Don't give up!
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My aunt had to have her cervix stitched up at the beginning of the pregnancy than they scheduled her C sections for delivery. She had had 2 beautiful girls as a result. Don't give up.
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First, I'm sorry to hear of your loss and emotional pain resulting from it. It makes ypu no less a woman because you have had one let alone two miscarriages. Second, have your doctor check your cervix because your babies could be dropping. That what happened to my aunt and she had 12+ miscarriages before the doctor finally caught on.
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thank you Brit333 for you kind words. My family is amazing they hv helped me once before and shall do so again. My doctor was gonna start me out on shots in two weeks but I didnt make it :(
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We will never know the reasons for all miscarriages and it's so hard to cope with not knowing. I would talk to your Dr and see if they have any ideas what could cause it because sometimes it can be preventable like with hormone shots. It sounds like you have a very supportive husband tho and that should give you relief that he knows it's something you don't have control over.. I have a friend that had 5 miscarriages in a row before having her son. She had the same feeling as you of wanting to give up but hopefully your Dr well be able to help you out. Blessings on your family during this time. So sorry you are going thru this again.
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