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Mixed Emotions

I'm pregnant with baby #4 and have decided to tie my tubes after this one.   I have a girl and two boys yesterday I found out in having another boy :( I dont know how I feel I seriously thought it was a girl, my symptoms were different from my boys. I thought it was a girl, i was excited i would have my 2 pairs. This pregnancy was a huge surprise and I was already still trying to accept it and now I think I'm Even more disappointed. Is this normal?
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Don't forget these bloody hormones don't help I'm sure they make every situation 100 x worse !! I am sure that when you hold him all those emotions will just disappear and you will love him just as much as all the others .. you have to look at the benefits to every situation and yeah like others have said you can have girly days out with your little girl whilst the boys are together and there is always the bonus to not having to worry about the girls arguing over stuff (going from personal experience of growing up with my sister lol she was forever nicking my clothes !!) And I'm deff sure.boys are easier !! Well in my case anyways! my little girl has a right old attitude lol
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Thank you for your kindness :) I appreciate it!!! I have 4 brothers :)
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I'm preg with #5. I have 4 girls & expecting my first boy.
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I know how you feel, I have 3 girls 1 boy and I'm expecting another girl
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I know how you feel, I have 3 girls 1 boy and I'm expecting another girl
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Aww I'm the only girl out of three brothers, two older one younger. I even have all guy cousins. Growing up I hated it being the only girl but it was the best times when I got to hang with my mom alone! I loved it! She's your only girl for a reason <3 don't be sad!
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I am LITERALLY in the exact same position as you!  I was super bummed and so was my daughter, but....now I just get to be loved by lots of boys and my daughter too!  I totally 100% understand your emotions and it didn't take long for me to get over it!
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Aww it is normal to feel upset but you will feel better about it soon. It is ecpecaly  upsetting if you know you won't have any more but it will be ok. Good luck
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