Month 2!

[Petrosdoll]

So this is the second month trying to get pregnant after my miscarriage.  As of now im 2 days late but im feeling like it's not gonna happen for me this month. Im so discouraged rt now and so sad. I want my baby is that to much to ask for... last month I was 5 days late..

[angelama14]

Try to just enjoy each other. Trying and being disappointing will consume you and make you miserable. My husband and I had a miscarriage in 08 and another in 09 and then tried for 5 years. Seeing doctors and doing ovulation tests and I was getting really depressed. We finally relaxed a bit and right then I found out I am pregnant. Stress isn't good for your body. Just take care of yourself, workout, eat healthy, and enjoy your spouse. It will happen when it's meant to happen =)

[Petrosdoll]

Thank you ladies yall r great believe me ur input is takin to heart♥

[dyingangel246]

I understand what these ladies are trying to say about not trying. I tried for 4 months, tracking ovulation, my period, cm, everything! Then I just kinda gave up and forgot about it, just kinda figured it wasn't the right time. Then last month my period was late. My period had been on time every month for 5 months in a row since I went off my bc so when it was 3 days late I knew something was up. I went and bought the test and it came back positive in less than a minute and a half.
So like the other ladies have said stop trying, it'll happen before you know it. It's also very stressful on you and your body when you try and nothing happens. I know I was so upset every month when I'd get my period. Good luck!

[Petrosdoll]

Wow what a story im so glad you got your blessing.. Im leaving it in gods hands what else can I do. I still havent started but feeling alil crampy today.

[Smkinsel]

I've had 2 MC within 9 months of each other (first was an ectopic)After the second one I decided to go see an infertility dr just to see what was going on. After running all the tests they run my right tube was blocked to no repair and I ended up having it removed. A month later we started on fertility injections and pills.. I thought for sure one month of them and we would be pregnant right away. Well 2 rounds and over 4,000 dollars spent we had no success. I started tracking my temp and had all these ovulation apps. Since my cycles were irregular it was hard to know exactly when. Every month I would take a PT just a day late and was so discouraged every time it was negative. I was hard on myself because I not had one tube and knew how much harder it would be.. I decide to stop keeping track of everything and just let it happen on God's time and what do you know, I'm currently 10w1day pregnant! I was shocked at first and really didn't believe it until we saw the heartbeat 2 weeks ago. I worry about everything, and I've never been this far along. I'll be good as soon as I leave the dr and it's up until 2 or 3 days before my next appointment and I start to freak out again. It'll happen for you when the timing is right! I started praying a lot more and just told myself that when God wants to bless my husband and I with a baby then he will! Hope all continues to go well for you!

[Petrosdoll]

Thanks ladies... I really haven't been looking at my app only to really see the date im supposed to start. Its kind of only having sex when we get in the mood , sex is never planned. It took me 3 months to get pregnant with the baby I miscarried I wanted that baby more then anything but god had other plans. Both of my children were one time oops lol but I was younger then im 30 now.

[newjulymommy]

You could trick your body into thinking it is pregnant if you worry and want it soooo much like if you truly believe you could be. It happened to my aunt

[KimboLynne19]

I know it's easier said than done. But don't think too much about wanting to be pregnant and don't try too hard to become pregnant. That's what worked for me. I've never miss carried so I can't say I know how you feel or what you're going through. But I can say I wanted the baby I'm carrying right now so badly, it hurt. I had 2 or 3 apps on my phone to document everything. My periods, my ovulation, and  the days we had sex. But nothing was working. And I never had a problem getting pregnant before. My oldest was a very nice surprise and my youngest was planned, and found out I was pregnant a month after trying for her. And I didn't have the apps with her and wasn't trying so hard. But because I was putting so much thought, time and energy into this one, it took 8 months to conceive. I deleted 2 of the apps and only updated the one I kept about once a week. And it was shortly after that, that I finally was able to conceive. I hope this helps.