It will work out and you will be fine. My hubby and I met while I was in a 3 year battle to get my divorce finalized, I have 2 daughters with my ex husband...support hearings, custody hearing, numerous meetings with my lawyer...pure craziness...I got pregnant with my now 14 month old during this and my now hubby was stressed but supportive through it all. Just support each other and it will work out...as for having 2 at once...seems overwhelming but it will all fall into place. My daughters are 17 months apart and I'm 12 weeks with my second with my new hubby...so this one and their brother will be a little under 2 years apart. I have my daughters ft, seems crazy to many but we love it!
It will all work out. Just keep positive