feel very annoyed with him

[kt6]

Thisvis basically just a rant but opinions are needed please.
So today itvwas my partners sisters wedding, i didmt really want to go due to my partners family making it clear they dont like me (we have been together 9 yrs and are pregnant with our 4th child) but being his sister ect i made the effort and went, i begged my partner to be there with me and not neglect me as soon as his around his brother (who threatened to hit me not long ago knowing im pregnant)......cut a long story short i have had to travel home on my own with 3 kids and 34 weeks pregnant due to him getting drunk and basically not giving a **** about me. Just so angry and dont no how to react to this.

[LoveCake98]

You have an alcohol problem in your family and priorities are not going to be straightened out until you all address the problem.  You don't deserve the problem but it's there affecting him, you, & the kids.  It's time for a sit down. His drinking has created a family problem and you should both confront it so it can be solved.  What's with the family drama for 9 years?  Sounds like a living h***.  He should be the stand up example for your kids to follow. You're strong enough and ready to take action.  Address it.

[kt6]

Thanks people, thats thr thing me and his family a knowledge each other ect but there is no respect for me, considering i birthed his children and yet they always just maje me feel upset. I put all that aside and went for him and the kids, deep down i knew he would get drunk and neglect me, he promised he wouldn't. Feel so upset because it was a wedding and u go as a family and leave as a family butbi always no with him it dont work like that

[MilitaryGF]

I know how that feels!! I hate wen the family makes u feel like that! It's always been that way for me but I live by this modo: they don't have to like me but they will respect me! And vice versa! Ugh that pisses me off just hearing how stupid people can behave! Feel better! I know I'd be upset too! I'm sorry

[mfayb]

That's not acceptable!  I am so sorry you had to go through that. Is this normal behavior for him? If not it could have been a freak out moment and after many apologies forgiven. However if this unthoughtful behavior is the norm I would really think about the relationship.  But it's for you to decide mama.

[rod3]

Does he always go off with his brother and do that to you when you are with the family? If not then it was probably just some time for him to blow off some steam and have fun. You cant change the family. If yourn hubby is good to you then ask him to support you in front of his family. If he is not like that well idk why you would put up with that...even with kids. Im sorry that you have to deal with that..especially with a family you cant change

[kt6]

Were not married and they have just never made me feel welcome and they do it to most people that try and enter the family

[Mjoller]

Why are you Married  to him? Why do they hate you?