No feeling of kicks :(

[LaRissa92]

So I'm 16wks and 3days . I'm having a girl and everyone keeps asking me do you feel her kicking yet? I'm like no I feel nothing.. I've had ultra sounds and she's moving around like crazy in there my dr even said you don't feel that ? As we watched her kick off the side of my uterus I'm all nope I see her doing it on the screen but I don't feel her . The apps I have say it's called quickening and will feel like flutters. I know she's there but I just wish I could feel her.. Any thoughts and is this normal? I'm almost 5 months now .. Ps I'm also a first time mom.

[LaRissa92]

Thanks ladies this really helps! I feel better after reading your comments :)

[munford85]

I meant I never felt flutters

[munford85]

I'm 36 weeks now with my first but I didn't feel him until 20 weeks but it's all about where they are positioned too.  My placenta is in the front of my uterus so I ever felt flutters or anything small with the placenta acting like a cushion.  When I finally felt my lil man it was full on kicks.

[nowits3]

This is my second baby and I didn't start feeling him till after 21 weeks! Don't stress soon enough she will be moving like crazy!

[kittin_1988]

This is my 4th baby an I didn't start to feel movement till around 23 weeks an I just now started to feel him move alot an I'm 25 weeks an 5 days. I also have a friend who doesn't feel anything till she like 30 weeks. With both pregnancys. So yes it can be very normal. I hope this helps.  

[lkaykirk]

My first i felt him at 15 weeks. It was a long rest of the pregnancy. This one (my second) i didnt feel him 20 weeks. And it wasnt even like strong kicks it was i barely feel him. So dont worry. 31 weeks and i finally felt hickups.

[roe20]

If ur 16 was ur only 4 months. Most first time mum's dont feel anything till about 20 weeks so don't be worrying