I would tell you not to pack diapers or wipes because the hospital here in Michigan supply them(they are pampers brand) and supply hospital brand wipes. Our hospital also supplies pads which I like and disposable underwear which it's nice since you well bleed a lot. Definitely want comfy clothes to wear home and an outfit for baby to wear home. Our hospital supplies your shirts for while they are in the hospital and ours gives you hats as well. Hope that helped. Also call and see about doing a tour of the birth center and you can ask then what they supply.
Pack comfortable clothes to wear after u give. Birth . Loose fitting things. A few pairs underware. Maxi pads. Toiletries. Hospital ones suck. Slippers. Socks. Tooth brush. Hair brush. Tooth paste. Bra if u wNt one. For the baby I would pack. Diapers. Wipes. A few outfits of clothes. Pacifier. Bottle. Fourmula if u plan to use it. A blanket. Socks. Onsies. A hat . That should be plenty. U don't need to bring the whole house. The hospital has things for the baby there to. I am having my 7th kid on the 30th. And I bring less every time. Lol. Good luck