Tired of Argueing

[BabyAryn3]

Since I found out I was pregnant me and my boyfriend cant get along... We do have a 3yr old together and is currently living together... Last night he made me feel so bad he asked me what are we gonna do with another child? Then he say why do I wanna cause more stress? Im so hurt because he puttin this pregnancy off on me like I did it alone... After I say all we have to do is stick together then we can do it he told me he didnt wanna talk about it anymore yelling and all.... We been together for 4yrs now and now he wanna show his true colors...See im 26 and hes 28 and I feel he havent grown up yet... I feel like this for all those "men" if you dont want kids use pretection and dont ask a female can yall have a baby or another baby then change your mind at the last minute...I swear if I never heard this babies heart beat I would get an abortion and leave my boyfriend cause hes hurting me mentally...DONT JUDGE ME cause I know everyone on here life with their partner is not peaches and cream

[SuperMom0217]

Hun you are not alone.  Me and the hubby have been going thru the same thing. Just let him know it takes 2 to make a baby. Wishing you all the best thru your pregnancy

[merimer]

Im going through the same thing but my boyfriend and we have a 1yr old and he wants me to have an abortion because he isnt ready for another one and which he say that we aren't ready for another one so confuse on wanting to do im against abortions and i feel as if babies are a blessing from god his lil angels

[TatBaby13]

...I had a similar experience as well with my bf of going on 7yrs now, we always had it planned to have a kid together and when i finally got pregnant which im 26wks now with our first child, he freaked out saying he wasn't ready and saying some REAL things to me. He was very distant and sad at the beginning but i prayed and had faith...and as the time progressed and he saw my belly getting bigger and also seeing the ultrasound, he completely changed his mind...now hes in love with his baby and is buying things for her and our relationship is back to how we started. So keep positive and try not to stress for babys sake...if its worth it to him he'll realize at the end. Best of luck to you and your family....Congrats!!!!

[AshleyLile]

Lol I thinly that's what mine did but O WELL, people should learn to read lol

[BabyAryn3]

Thank you so much Ashley because I was just about to let my hormones take over....lmao

[AshleyLile]

Um to you above did you not read the part were they wanted a baby together an another baby AND THEN HE CHANGED HIS MIND!!! she wasn't putting the blame on anyone, if anything he is making tge baby all HER fault. Try re reading what the lady wrote!!

[AshleyLile]

U

[jmbaker8001]

Its ypur responsibility just as much as your bf's to use pprotection.  Dont put it all on him.  It takes 2 to tango.

[BabyAryn3]

Thanks for the advice ladies

[BabyAryn3]

Thanks for the advise ladies

[New Mommy 2 Be 2007]

I'm not judging you, I am pro choice for a reason. I am glad you choose to keep the baby because you will end up being pregnant again, take it from an experience of mine. You need to talk things over with him and if he doesn't support you and his family which is you and your kid and your new one on the way, then leave maybe that will teach him a lesson. Best of luck hun

[BarbieAnn85]

i agree with Lilah

[BabyAryn3]

your right and thanks

[Lillah]

Not everyone on this forum has a Partner or a great relationship with him... N no one can judge the fact that you decided to keep the baby. You have made a great decision to keep the baby now you just have to deside to keep the jerky partner or leave him.... Good luck!