I'm going to say zero times. Hell, my hubby hardly lays a finger on me except to touch and kiss on my belly much less touch me in other more erogenous places..lol.
Often it truly helps with labor!!
This is something you can do for yourself, your partner doesn't have to do it.
Whats perineal massage?,sorry my english is not so good :(
How often should that area be massaged? I did get a episiotomy with my first baby and the healing was painful. If I can avoid another episiotomy then I will try. Let me know..