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Please help my friend
Michael kyle Stone Sr

Already have a Michael kyle Stone Jr from another relationship

He just recently got married and wants another son name after him

He wants both to be a Jr which I explain to him he can name his children what ever he's wants

But the other woman is cursing him out threathing he want be able to see his other son if he name this child Jr or the 3rd

Any suggestions on name is he wrong I don't know what to say but I don't want to talk a man out of naming his children what he wants so please ladies again help thanks for any comment rude ones will be ignore but taking to in account
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Guess she know if it come back its his child she can't stop him from seeing the boy
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As just of now the other woman back off when he said he will take her to court for a paternity test lol damn s#%* just got real
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Lol I know hahaha it funny but my friend he call the other child Michael and the lil baby will be call jr lol I guess everything would work out
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7639603 tn?1393941547
Its nothing wrong with having your children named the same thing if they are in the same household like George Forman did. All of his sons are named George. I believe there are 4 or 5 of them. It must be very confusing in their house but I'm sure they have nicknames lol
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Thanks everyone for all the advice
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7639603 tn?1393941547
My husband has a son from a previous relationship and hi child's mother named him after him all but his last name. My husband and I had a son who he wanted to make a Jr. I was against it because I felt like the children might grow up to resent one another with the same name or the other mother would try to make her son more important. My grandmother tried to get me to name him after my husband because that's what he wanted but I simply didn't want to. So to compromise I named my son's first name Prince and reversed my husbands first and middle name and hyphenated them for my sons middle name. He loved the idea because in a way he still has a Jr. And just like I thought after his name was announced they still had a problem with it even though its not the same name and our children are 10 years apart. Tell them to compromise or go ahead and name him what they want but to be prepared for the back lash. He may have to take her to court for his rights.
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8489354 tn?1405627762
I like the name reversal idea. The other child may be ok with it now, but they probably won't be when they're older. I do think it's a little odd he wants both named after him. To each their own though.
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I don't think it's fair to either child for them to have the same name. Children should have their own identity.  I think that he should come up with a different name. Think of how confusing things will be when they are both together.
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7979418 tn?1405680665
I agree he can name his whatever he wants but I don't think it's a good idea to give both his sons the same name. I get that the one son says it OK & he thinks it's cool but he is a kid & I don't think he will like it si much when he gets older. Every kid deserves their own name it's part of their identity & I would be afraid that as the one son got older he will
feel like his dad was trying to replace him. I do like the idea of switching the names around & if he does that it would probably decrease some of that baby mama drama.
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Lol my inlaws did something similar (but these are the same parents) my brother in law is Jose Ventura, Jr after the dad and my fiance is named Jose Angel after his uncle who was blessed with 4 girls.

The children and those who meet them find it a bit confusing. Plus it is a huge issue when it comes to credit scores, proving proper identity and other legal stuff because their socials are very close as well.
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But its kinda the same but they will have different ss# hahaha no but foreal I trying to help him
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I know I told him he can do Michael kyle Jr

While the other carry Michael kyle stone Jr

Do that look okay he said he will go with that
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8793709 tn?1409594060
in this situation, I liked the idea of reversing the names, as suggested by knufrio ... Michael kyle and kyle Michael.
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Kinda weird to have two children with the same name.. Not to mention confusing. And I doubt they would like it later in life. They are different babies they should have different names.
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8101930 tn?1420001456
Kyle Michael is cute and it's still after him.  
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Up to them but it's silly having two siblings with the exact same name. It comes off as almost trying to replace a child or something. Each child Is their own person why not give them their own name not their brothers...
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Thanks a lot @tashas1st and the other child likes the idea of a brother begin name after him
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Its true. He can ame his son what he wants. My opinion, for what it's worth, is that I would be offebded if my father had a new relationship and named the child the same name as mine. I would feel like he was trying to replace me.
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The baby wouldn't be a 3rd because that would only happen if the Jr has a baby. I personally don't think he should have two kids with the same name. Yes they have different mothers but they are still half brothers and it's kind of odd... I like the idea of reversing it though.
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Okay @britnyabuto I will talk to him
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8171562 tn?1408628833
He could flip it to Kyle Michael... It's is son and name him whatever he wants...but some women can be very vindictive and would actually go as far as not letting him see his other son
Best of luck to him...In this sticky situation
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