hi laides please help

[hopefull4566]

Back in the hospital have another vaginal infection  but this time the infection is coming out of my cervix  my fiance    and i did have sex about a week ago   and  now I'm starting to wonder is he cheating  the other night  when I came home the bed was still unmade  I also could be feeling slightly paranoid idk what to do if anyone has some advice please let me know

[hopefull4566]

I've become unconcerned with the cheating cause I'm std free  I see I was just feeling paranoid freaked out by what the doctor said but I'm giving my pregnancy doctor two options today one treat me or two put me put of work this is making me hurt and I can't take the pain at all  and it looks so bad when I have to call out  so much

[Proudmama86]

I don't know about all the other things but I've heard bv is very common in pregnancy and can come and go which is why they usually don't test for it til towards the end and can be taken care of with antibiotics and the discharge could just be a yeast infection or from the bv but I'm no Dr either but like was already said I would ask about the std thing and all that and if any of the stuff going on could be caused by an std/cheating before you jump to conclusions just because of unmade bed and cause possibly unnecessary stress and fights

[hopefull4566]

I've been tested for all stds  all negative but the hospital doctor tells me I have bv  also glucose cells and  very high amount of white blood cells down there and she told me last time I was at the hospital  my cervix was not inflamed but now it is very inflamed I haven't had discharge in weeks but the doctor sees discharge coming from my cervix  but my doctor that I see for my pregnancy I don't feel like she is listening to me at all   she dose vaginal exams but doesn't see what the hospital doctor sees or she doesn't care  it makes me worry

[mags242001]

What type of infections have u been getting? Some don't mean that he is cheating on u. Some is simple a hygiene problem or ur producing too much yeast. It might be u for all u know. So don't tell him u think he is cheating without being sure. U don't need those type of fights during pregnancy. Find out what they r n what may cause them.

[sgulia1987]

If no STDs show up sounds more to me like you need to ask your fiance to wash himself before sex. If his penis isn't clean he can introduce bacteria causing an infection which you're more prone to during pregnancy.

[willtowin160]

I am so sorry you are going through this, it can be so scary. But keep in mind when we are pregnant we are more susceptible to getting infections. I hope he is not cheating, but I would schedule a private appointment with your dr and have them screen you. And I am also super paranoid  feeling my hubby is cheating even though it is completely out of character. So if you have a goid man that is loyal you probably don't have anything to worry about, but I would make sure to get screened.

[AdesGirl]

If you feel unsure I'd ask my doctor to re test for any stds,  that can cause very bad infections during pregnancy! . And I think we all have those feelings and paranoid thoughts expecially while we are pregnant!  I hope everything works out for you!!