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Anyone else have a husband who just doesn't understand?  I have no energy and when I do something like sweep I get dizzy. The other day I folded three loads of laundry and he asked "what did you do today to clean the house?" Not even a thank you. I stated I did laundry and dishes and he said that doesn't count... he hasn't swept the house in months its always on me. I am not sleeping good, I have a sore throat, and he's giving me an attitude cuz all I did while he was gone was take a bath!  GRRR
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9597762 tn?1413209025
My bf is like that. Hasnt helped clean up the house, wont do dishes, cook, cut the grass or pick up dog poop.  So I am stuck doing it all alone,  and if I need to nap or rest after work (I work full time as a mail carrier so I am usually exhausted at tbe end of a day) he complains that it is all I do. I would like to see him try being pregnant and still do everything else!!
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Mine won't offer help. Have to beg him just to clean the cat box. I will end up getting some masks and do it myself since its such a hard task for him to do. His excuse is that he doesn't do it to my standards so he just rather not do it. I am an OCD clean freak and I do like things done a certain way, but wouldn't it just be easier to learn how I like it and avoid an argument?
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He hasn't offered to do anything. The day after he accidentally locked me out of our room (he is usually last to bed and likes our door locked so its habit) he let me have a nap. I'm 9 weeks, he hasn't offered any help.
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9974613 tn?1407014269
My man is constantly complaining that i sleep too much. Why are you so tired all the time? Its not like u had a rough day. Oh I'm sorry, but I have been carrying our baby all day. Why don't you try carrying a baby for 24 hours a day non stop and tell me you're not exhausted. Other than that, he's usually pretty understanding. He's always telling me to stop cleaning and come relax, then I fall asleep and he starts complaining.
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I feel you! Yesterday my husband and me argued about that! He always asks me what I do all day? He's a very good husband, he helps me and tells me that he'll do what I can't do! But yesterday he got tired and told me a lot of stuff! But then today he apologized and said he'll still do what I can't!
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