SMH!!

[firsttimemommy05]

Its sad some of us women can't get on here for support or just vent without being judged.... I thought this site was going to be encouraging but some of you women are to judge mental.... So what if your relationship with your partner is "perfect" which is a lie because no relationship is but the way y'all make it seem like it is... If you don't have anything nice or trying to encourage someone then don't comment on there post.

[marie0925]

It is a sad thing to see when people get judged, I personally only comment if I feel I have something helpful or supportive to say. People dont know everyone situation and as pregnant women we should be supportive of eachother becausr there normally is enough judgement in each of our personal lifes. Im truely sorry you have seen that side of this app. I get judged often when people hear some of the things I do but its my choice weather or not to take it to heart (which isnt slways easy I migjt say.lol) but know yhat there are alot of supportive wpmen on here, those are the ones you want to pay attention tp and if you evere have a question and dont want tp be judged message me id be more thrn happy to help, im a MA and pregnant with my third so I will do my best to support anyone whp asks avquestion I feel I can help with.

[shysmom87]

I feel the same. We should be supporting each other not hurting.

[firsttimemommy05]

I mean I love hearing everybody being happy I'm all for someone else happiness but let's all remember to think of others when posting things.

[happybaby2015]

Let's not let an app cause us to have negative feelings. We're Blessed with our little ones & have positive things to focus on :) Sometimes posts can come off offensive when the person didn't intend it to. Hugs & kisses

[CrysyMarie87]

I think it's just everyone is going through something different and some ppl don't know how to not get in their feelings ! The whole purpose of this app is to support one another but state what where all going through at the specific time and give opinions!! But that's just it I think if your not strong enough to take an opinions or the positives with the negatives then maybe you shouldn't say anything period. We're all not gonna be on the same page it's impossible. Just Wooosahhhh people lol :)

[Nov7thmommy]

No sweetie some times you'll see supportive women that want to help u so don't stop posting any question or any problems that u have

[firsttimemommy05]

I feel you... I just stopped posting stuff for a while because I can't stand to see the ********.

[Nov7thmommy]

That's why I have certain women here, that I message them in private, cause I know they won't judge me and I know I won't judge them if they say something to me and will help them like they help me, because of some rude comments here

[firsttimemommy05]

Thx ladies... I come here to vent sometimes and sometimes for support not to be judged.

[Nov7thmommy]

@knufrio, there's a post talking about how great her husband is, which I'm happy for her, but one of the comments was one saying bitter much!! To the women that are with their partner even tho they're not happy, the way that she said it, bothered me because I'm fcking tired of women here judging every little thing that we post here, like I said there, my husband is wonderful, he's a good man, he doesn't disrespect me, he works hard so I won't work, cause I'm a high risk pregnancy, but lately he's been driving me crazy, I feel like I want to punch him in the face!!!!!.
So if we post about that, is because we don't have anybody else to talk to about them, my family loves him and they immediately blame me for any fight that we have, so for me this is my place of vent, but now I feel like we can't even do that here anymore without negative comments or judgemental women

[knufrio]

I'm sorry if you've felt judged in any way and I completely agree with you. I like yo think I have a great marriage and I love my husband, but ALL relationships have ups and downs and none of them are perfect in every way. To be honest the only relationships that seem to be "perfect" are the ones that sooner or later end up with a special on MSNBC if you know what I mean. Its not right to judge people based on their relationship issues and yes women do come here to vent. From a psychological standpoint its completely normal to seek out view points and help from strangers because the idea is that they don't know you and therefore cannot judge you. Women come here for guidance and support and ALL posts should be treated with respect.

[scarletbegoniass]

Sorry you're experincing/noticing the negative aspect of the app. I have come across it too and it takes a lot for me to ignore it. This IS suppose to be a support community and judgements should not be welcome here.

[firsttimemommy05]

Exactly... Just because there not going through it they don't have a right to judge or bash us.

[Nov7thmommy]

I've noticed that for everything here we've been judge, any question that we post here, you'll see another post talking about that