Jealousy

[Nananan987]

I am 10 weeks pregnant. I have noticed that I became not only emotionally sensitive but also very jealouse. Sometime can't control myself. What can I do to get rid of negative thoughts?

[Nananan987]

Thanks a lot for your advice! You are very helpful :)

[xojensen_]

If he's not giving you any reasons to question him then you shouldn't worry. One thing I learned during my pregnancy is that dwelling on the past will NOT make anything better. Once your baby arrives that will be all that matters.

My advice is to try and not over think it I know its difficult TRUST ME I over analyze everything, anything, any word. You're extremely hormonal during pregnancy and stressing over things will only make it worse. If you're really concerned then ask!

But one advice I wish I would've taken from my mom while pregnant was pick your battles. If it's not worth it then forget about it.

Best of luck!

[Nananan987]

He doesn't give serious reasons to be jealouse,  at the same time hides some facts about his past! I could control my emotions before but now I get nervous and can't control myself whenever I think about his last connections or present opportunities. Is this because I am getting bigger? Something happened to my confidence, maybe!!

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Are the thoughts irrational?  As in, does your partner give you any REASON to be jealous or is this coming out of nowhere and just part of anxiety/insecurity related to the pregnancy?