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9663463 tn?1407525554

Second hand smoke

My biggest pet peeve is when my boyfriend thinks he can smoke around me. I have to tell him over and over to stop and then makes me feel like im inconviencing him by being in the same room.. so annoying! is anyone else dealing with this?
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Well when I quitted my husband did as well...seing these post make me grateful for him..:) be fifm and tell him he needs to stop or else...
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My guy ONLY smokes outside. 3rd hand smoke isn't good for you or baby. It's not fair to make you breathe polluted air. He's gotta get in the habit of smoking outside now. It's not hard and I am so frustrated for you! WHY do people think it's ok!!!
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I made my husband quit when we started dating!! :)
Best thing I have ever insisted on!
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Even third hand smoke is dangerous, the smell on clothes, the chemicals on his skin and such.
I dealt with it with my first pregnancy and I wouldn't let my hubby near me or touch me and he quit after a few months.
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He is wrong and is being insensitive don't worry it's something alot of us have to deal with myself included.
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I am n the same boat my mom n dad smoke n go out side to smoke but they still light it n side and walk throw the house makes me feel like a nag
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That would **** me off. Everything my bf /bd smokes he walks fad away from me. He's big on me not being around smoke lol
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Or boyfriend**
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Thankfully my husband quit along with me when we found out we were expecring. But m mother in law on the other hand is selfish +although she claimed she's so proud of us,she still lights up right next to me, or if we're at her house she'll smoke inside even when we're there..then she gets super pis sed when my husband says something to her. Like its putting her out to not smoke aroundme lol. But she doesn't owe me anything I guess,  your husband on the other hand should really be more respectful :\
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9663463 tn?1407525554
i know and thats what worries me.. what happens when the baby comes.. im def not tolerating that!
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You need a smoke free environment. He needs to only smoke outside!!!
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Yes ! Hubby is the same. I get so angry, and he just doesnt get it. But im very straight with Him, keep telling him hun, dont ever feel bad for protecting the lil one
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