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7074486 tn?1389932822

So sad at doctors office.

I dont like it here seeing all the pregnant women and the way they are happy is making me sad cant help to think why cant that be me. Do u think Im crazy?  Im kind of jealous! I couldnt help but cry when they did the ultrasound and there was no baby :( Having a miscarriage is most difficult thing ever!
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thanks ladies ur words are warming.  I went in today after my miscarriage 4 weeks ago there was no trace of anything which is a good thing so no D&C thank god. Doctor said I can start trying again next month so fingers crossed! My kids were upset about everything but god will give them a baby brother or sister when he sees im ready.
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Ah, so sad. But hang in there. You will get your own little one soon.
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I know exactly how you feel. I went in for my 1st ultrasound 1st pregnancy in june and there was no heartbeat. Went back a wk later same thing no change in size...and so i had a dnc...they said it could take wks for me to naturally miscarry. It is sad and for me it didnt help that EVERYBODY around me was finding out they were pregnant...i still cried up to a little over a wk ago. I guess bc pregnant women were everywhere in my face and a little more to it than that but...i found out on the 21st i am pregnant again...im sooo scared for that ultrasound but you have to try and stay positive and know that things happen for a reason. I know it doesnt make it better cause it just doesnt seem fair! But Ive put this preg in Gods hands and I have faith that what is meant to be will be. Dont give up hope...there was a reason you didnt have that baby. Hugs and prayers are with you!!!
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Ive had 3 miscarriages so I understand how you feel. However the day will come when you do have your son/daughter and it will be apparent that if that did not happen. ..you would never have had the children you are destined to have. I know it's a sad time for you...everything will be ok though xx
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I will be praying for you don't lose hope.
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I Completely agree with you.  It it's hard for me to read the posts on here where people complain because they are so pregnant and uncomfortable.  I would do anything to actually be pregnant and uncomfortable.
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Thank you ladies so much! Ur comments have me in tears this is so hard for me since this baby was planned. But I trust that god will give me the child I long for.
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Wow that must be so hard! Hopefully soon you'll be blessed with a healthy child... And you'll never know of any pain again...
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I am sorry to hear what you are going through. There is nothing wrong with how you are feeling. I am praying for you and know that you will be bless with a bundle of joy. Stay strong!
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I'm sorry to hear that darling!!! It's gonna be OK... I know it must be real hard to go thru that... You should let every tear out... Just remember God has a plan it when it's your time he will definitely take care of you...
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Oh my gosh, so sorry to hear that! I hope you stay strong and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care.
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