You can do perinal massages to help stop tearing..or at least do it to avoid it possible..look it up online it shows how to do it
Good news is the dr will cut you down there before it tears. However, if your baby is too big, they will do a csection. I heard vag better bc you heal.faster, especially if breastfeeding!csection major surgery and scar and painful.afterwards and you're on bed rest
I don't think I can do that, I can barely reach myself around my giant baby belly nor can I feel anything from the knuckles of my hands to my finger tips.. Really bad carpal tunnel from pregnancy. Maybe I could ask my husband to, poor guy lol.
I had my son in Mag, I teared a little. It isn't that bad, the stitches dissolve on its own. It will sting a little when you pee, but warm water in a squeeze bottle helps. Don't be scared. Lol its all over in a second.
During sex have you tried using alot of lubricant??
Yep. I've gone to a specialist too
I got a tear and it also had to be cut, but i didnt think it hurt as straight aftet had my baby in my arms and 4got everything around me. :) us women are designed to have babies and cope with what happens so leave it to fate, u will be fine. X
have you tried the pelvic floor exercises?? They help strengthen those muscles.
Yeah I've tried everything, even estrogen cream and vaginal dilators.
I was cut with my first and tore with my second because they weren't ready. Tucks Pads were my best friend for about 4-5 days after! You just fold them in half and place them between stitches and your pad. I would think it would be better to tear than a csec, less of an area affected and just a few stitches vs more with csec. Csecs also take longer to recover than vaginal.