Tired of the lies

[amylynn07]

Just needing to rant for a sec and know i am not in the wrong...my husband who i have known for 13years has disappointed me yet again. We have been married for two years have a beautiful daughter and are due in 49days with another girl. We have fought and struggled over a smoking problem. See i have asthma and smoke makes me have really bad attacks. He promised he would quit before we were married, then before baby #1 was born then before her birthday and again when we moved and the last time as i was packing my bags said he would switch to the e cigs. I told him that i wanted it treated the same way, our girl was to not see it happening and it was to always be outside...not only does he do it infront of her which makes me crazy mad i just walked in on him doing it in the house. Now i know that the vapor is only water and wont her me or the kids but it doesn't mean it is ok to disrespect my wishes...i cant believe he would do this again to me. I wanna just pack and leave till he can figure out how to stop lying to me but idk. I am so torn it isn't funny. I am beyond pissed but know with all the complications i have been having with this pregnancy i shouldn't be far from my doctor...i just don't know what to do.

[amylynn07]

We have talked so many times amd it just doesn't seem to matter.because of my job i will need to stay for a couple more weeks. I told him that once we pass the 8th depending on work i will go stay with my family for a week or so to get some space. I don't like the idea of being apart nor that far from my doctor but i need him to understand anf staying he just doesn't seem to get it

[nonishy]

Smoking is a difficult habit to quit...it's good he switched to the ecig. Maybe you can just talk to him about it. Tell him once again to do it outside and away from your kid/kids. Maybe talk to him about the smoking sensation program. They will send him patches, gum, logens, pills to help him quit. Tell him tgar even though it's vapor, the look of it can give children the wrong impression.  

[rod3]

Is there a possibility ypu can stay with family? Maybe actually packing ypu and your daughters bag will make him realise you are serious.