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Hi I'm Tiffany I'm about roughly 9wks pregnant I've made a horrible mistake n have nobody to confide in my question is my last period was may 8th n I was ovulating from the 17th to the 22nd as this app says well my boyfriend and I were hvn problems and I ended up sleeping with my child's father my ex and that was the 23rd or 24th BC It may have bn after.midnight is it possible he could b the father if this app is saying I conceived on the 22nd pls no bashing as I am having a very hard time dealing with this my bf n him both know about the situation but I'm desperately wanting my bf to be the father
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Seems like.it.may.be ur bf then but wait to get that ultrasound just make sure u write all those dates.down so u don't forget good luck n keep us posted !
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When.did u and ur boyfriend have sex? Was it close to ur ovulation day?
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Honestly it sounds too close to be able to tell, its hard to say exactly the day you ovulated, just an average so it could be either.  I think the only way you will know for sure is after baby comes.
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Best of luck. We all make mistakes and I hope everything works out.  Don't beat yourself up over it. :)
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5104126 tn?1413329079
Anytime u need to talk just holla
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I'm srsly crying I've felt so embarrassed n asahmed and alone til now I'm so blessed to have come across this forum u woman are amazing! Thank yu from the bottom of my heart I sure hope it does too
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5104126 tn?1413329079
No bashing here. Cant judge not my place hon and I sure will
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5628321 tn?1376273593
Good luck sweetie. Hope all goes well & turns out the way you want. Anytime. Xoxo
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Thankk you I'm still getting a DNA to ease my mind but the doc said he could give me a better due date when he can see baby which is next wk but like I said the sac measured at 5wks 3days thank you again for easing my mind n taking time out of ur day for me big hugs to you!!!!  
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5628321 tn?1376273593
If they say baby is 5 weeks & it's only been 4 weeks, very unlikely. The earlier ultrasounds are more useful for dating than later ones. ;)
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Shasta you are a very sweet woman I've bn beating myself up crying non stop BC of what I've done n I know its not good for the baby I juss can't help it when I had my first on appointment June 19th they couldn't see the baby but by the gestation sac I was measuring at 5wks 3 days n when I got that ultrasound it was 4 wks since I slept with my ex so is it still possible he's the father if I'm measuring a week n 3 days sooner?
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5628321 tn?1376273593
That's what this is about. :) any time you have a question or need to vent, someone in here will listen
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Thankk you ladies for not bashing me n being understanding :) I in my heart believe the baby is his pls kp me and my baby in your prayers God bless you
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5628321 tn?1376273593
There is a chance. It is always possible. But, if you were having sex with your bf around the same time then it's more likely to be your bf. The only thing to do is to get a test after the baby is born.
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5104126 tn?1413329079
It is very possible. Sperm can live in the bidy up ti 3 days. When u have ur ultrasound they wikl be able to give u a date when u concieved which is usually on point. Good luck honey
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