Venting!! Just tired of ppl!!

[PeachesRM]

35 days and counting ! When does this button or what ever ppl are talking about pops up? And honestly I have gotten to the point where I'm not even exited about having my bby any more.. Don't get me wrong I love her and I'm ready to meet her but I'm not excited about it because of other ppl!! Like my mom! My nosey, messy childish a$$ gma ! And my sisters are getting in my nerves and my bf don't even act like we are having a child and on top of that I'm moving back home after 11 years of being on my own ( moved out at age 17 I'm 28 now) and I think that's where the depression kicks in I really want to come home when I leave the hospital but so much is going on that I really need to move!! Yet, I don't like ppl or visitors like that and if I was at home I could control the crowd better as far as visiting MY child goes but since I will be at my moms ppl will feel like they can visit when they want too and I can see me exploding in everybody 100%.... Idc about ppl being happy or excited and I want is space and time to really take in my surrounding and adjust to being a ftm... But for some reason everybody already know what's best for me and think they have the right of telling me what I should do period as if me getting pregnant made me lose my brain !!! Then ppl are trying to tell me what I can and can't do with my child!! This sh¡t has gotten old and i have started to hate ppl and don't really know if I want them apart of my baby's birth anymore!! He££ they might try and tell the doctors how the bby should be delivered !!

[justmel1986]

My mam have asked time and time again to be there and I said no offence but it's me and Mike bringing this baby into the world . Don't want you there. I've said the same about his parents, I've told them I want a few hours after the baby is born before they come to visit. I've had many of arguments with my boyfriend due to this so I told him I would do it on my own if he tells them I'm in hospital.

[PeachesRM]

My mom wants to be at the birth also ... Me and my child's dad are the only ppl I want there period! Then that another thing I'm worried about... This will be my first time away from my child's dad ... And we have been together for almost 8 yrs.... But  right now I know the space will be good for us... I'm just worried because he has no where to go .. And one of the reasons I'm moving out my house is because I'm going to need the help and can't pay everything myself because he's not working at the moment...

[justmel1986]

I second most of that. I have distanced my self from most of my family because they try telling me what to do. I also have 35 days to go can't wait to meet little one. My mam desperately wants to be at the birth I've told her no I just want me and my partner there. You have to start making people listen to what you want it's you and your baby. I've just told people that if I want your advice I'll ask for it, till then support my decisions please.

[Newmummy657]

I get ya!!! They forget that it's just you and this baby in your mind, you just want to do it yourself! I don't want my relationships with family to change now we have a child. I don't want people coming thinking I need help, and just assuming! If I need it or want it I will ask for it... If your moving in with your mum perhaps just have a chat with her about how you feel and that you hope they can give you and baby your own little space.