What would your response

[Ladyj0625]

I recently found out I was pregnant again almost 7 months after giving birth to my son. I would like to know how do handle ppl asking why so soon after having your son have another baby? It wasn't on purpose I'm not really happy about it but don't know if I can handle the questions or comments when we finally tell ppl.

[lala_mommy]

Lol @Treksy! I wish I had thought of your response (my youngest is 6) "why a third?" , "your wanting to start all over again?",  "was it planned?".
Smdh, seriously why would ppl even bring up these comments?! The last time I heard my SIL say "omg, I am glad I just have one." My response in my mind was like " Wow, especially because you do absolutely nothing all day."  ...
>Anyways,  as the others said,  it may seem like a bit too much right now- and in the first year,  but you'll be glad you did. Hang in there momma ;)

[Mikhaylah]

F@%k what people think id be the biggest smartarse gross 'em out with stupid funny sexual answers hahhaa! Just for laughs youre blessed hun :) if they aint feeding u,financing u or f@#king u aint none of their damn business lol! Congrats u machine ! U go girl! :p

[Mommy_of_thr3e]

My father is 364 days older than his sister... so all growing up my aunt would rub it in for ONE DAY about how they were the same age. :) they grew up inseperable!

[Veronica555]

Because seriously who the hell are they to ask u something like that? They wonder why ur having kids and u can tell them the same way I wonder why you only have 1, or 2 or w.e. or say something aling the lines of if im doing this im doing it now and im doing it right, so in how wver many years I can be done with the nursing baby years and live a little,  otherwise ur whole life is locked down. Your being smart

[Veronica555]

Some women are willing to sacrifice their time nerves and energy on children for the sake of the family,  so that when your long and gone,  tjey have each other,  its the least selfish thing you can do foe your children. .. so if anyone asks, spit that in their face "I understand not everyone is built to handle the baggage of children,  but I know its better for their wellbeing and future in this world, so for them, id do it 1000 times" or if they say why? Ask them "why not?"

[nikel24]

Yeah say something silly back. Like yeah all my husband has to do is look at me and boom I'm pregnant.... I think mine and my husband's jeans were hung too close together in the closet...or we really wanted twins and that's the closest we could get. Forget people and what they think, babies are a blessing planned or not.