I reside in California and we get maternity leave, but when to take it? I've asked my Dr and she keeps prolonging it. Til next office visit, I was high risk, on the 1st and 2nd trimesters. Im not now. Work has already done my baby shower and everyone keeps asking me when my last day will be. It's kind of awkward. I'm already 36 weeks and 2 days. I'm feeling fine but of course exhausted by the end of the day since I'm up on my feet all day. I'm a FTM and don't know much about this. I've asked at HR and was told if my Dr places me on leave then that's it. Please shed some insight.