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Worst day of my life

After 8 weeks and 3 days today I miscarried my twins. My first pregnancy. My first babies are gone
I just can't stop crying.  I don't know how to tell my boyfriend. He was happier than me about this pregnancy.
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Thanks everyone.  It's just really hard. I wish you all the best. Hopefully one day I'll be blessed with a healthy baby.
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My deepest condolences! Pray about it!
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Oh sweetheart,  this is so painful at this time.  

I've had two first trimester miscarriages,  of babies I really wanted and grieved.

In my experience,  as time passes,  this pain of a very early pregnancy loss fades.  For some reason,  these babies didn't get a good start and didn't begin to grow in to healthy babies.  
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Sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.Prayers sent to you and your family :( ♡
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Sorry for  your loss....praying for you. ..
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Sorry to hear that
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Sorry for your loss I've lost 2 angels 1 at 20 weeks then another at 8 weeks the pain never goes away it just gets easier to deal keep praying for your baby god has a plan for you and your little ones will look down on you from heaven
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So sorry for your loss. Sending positive vibes your way.
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No words can fix the sadness you are feeling I'm sure. But know that there is a whole community of women here sending you support and well wishes. I hope you can return to this app with happy news one day.
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im so sorry to hear i miscarried in oct...i was 12 weeks 4 days...but had ab obliumn pregancy. its was devastating to me i was uoset for a month....just found out expecting again...we never know why these things happen we get mo answers find a support group it helped me. and im worried that when the babys b day arrives I'll spiral down again
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So sorry sweetie .....it has happen to me too ....
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I'm so sorry :( I'm praying for you.
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Praying for you!
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So sorry for your loss mama:(
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Sorry for ur loss...
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Im so sorry to hear this grieving news...my condolences are with you an your boyfriend...I dont really know what to say about how you are feeling hun but what I can say is continue having faith in the lord for he only knows why these things happen the way they do...I can tell you this is not your last pregnacy sweety an to please dont give up out of fear later...I know your hurting an can cry however long it takes for you to feel a little ok knowing they are in good hands an telling you its not your fault...I know its going to be hard to tell your boyfriend but try to tell him the best way you can...may the lord keep his hands on you an help you through this sad news I pray you recieve strength in jesus name amen. Take care of yourself sweety an please dont blame yourself!
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Sorry for your loss. Check for grief support groups.
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