I feel alone like where did all my friends go?

[lexus3232]

Do u ladies feel that way? Omg thank god for my partner if not I would not hv anyone I swear when I hv baby these ppl better not call me..lol

[mckaylas_momma1018]

I know how you feel... I had my 1st baby at 24 when all of my other friends would party and get wasted. All of my high school friends just disappeared and it really made me realize who my true friends were- my family and my military family... its usually the people who don't have any kids who dont understand. ... this pregnancy all my friends (who are also the people that I work with) are very excited for me and cant wait til I deliver... many say they dont want to see me tomorrow and that I look very uncomfortable (very true)... im days away from delivery and cant wait!!! My best friend even wants to throw a meet the baby party... lol

[chasanique]

Take this as a lesson.....now you know who your real friends are

[rem8188]

Same here one person actually said its because we cant party anymore...reallu? Grow up

[NoahEthan]

So true. Its just me, my boyfriend and baby. Lol and of course litttle pupppy! Life has truly changed lol

[Schmalzy]

Yep Some of mine I have gave up on Cuz they are just so immature. Better off without them!  I'm happy I have my husband. . He is my best friend and my family! friends come and go but family is forever! :)))

[elvendork]

Some of your friends might be trying to get pregnant, maybe trying hard and nothing is happening. So they might be frustrated and having a hard time dealing with your pregnancy.

[Junemommy23rd]

Before I got pregnant when I used to say lets go to the hookah bar they where the first one there when I used to lets drink they where all there. After I got pregnant they all disappear so fast is not even funny. At the end of the day if they not with you in the hardest time they not your real friends so is ok I don't need them all we have to concentrate on is our babies ladies god bless.

[jeni18]

i feel the same way

[ericatoday]

Yup. I've never had a lot of friends I only had one best friend that's it. And we use to hang out a lot but ever since I got pregnant sometimes I won't here from her for days. And I haven't seen her in weeks and she only lives 20 mins away :/ I always have to text her and ask how she is and if I say anything about myself she stops texting me. And she's only asked me like once or twice how my pregnancy is going and I'm already 18+2. If she was pregnant I would've asked her all the time and always be there for her. :/ shes upsetting me and I'm too nice to say anything. Sorry your post made me vent Haha.

[lexus3232]

U live and learn not everybody is ur friend.

[lexus3232]

Thanks ladies for understanding .. its hard but I cant wait till baby comes..im due in August im 28 weeks ..

[littlerenee]

I know exactly how u feel all my friends disappeared everyone got mad me bc I never wanted to go anywhere I cant help this whole pregnancy has been ruff I stay sick tired I cant help it everyone use to me being on the go always wsnting to have fun but not since I been pregnant I still got 3 more weeks iam like u no one better call me since they couldn't understand I so sick all time in pain plus taking care of my 4 yr old to its ruff cant wait to be myself again even with no friends lol oh and I was told my pregnancy revoled around me duh to them it took over how I felt lol good luck to u when are u due

[sazlou84]

I lost a lot of friends when i had my first. I was 19 and everyone got bored of me. You definatly realise who your real friends are. Don't worry when you have baby you can make new mommy friends. Good luck

[Raynormb]

Haha i feel the same way, as soon as i found out i was pregnant my friends without kids kinda quit talking to me...one of them being my best friend. It bothered me for a while but now that i'll be meeting my son in a few days and starting a whole new chapter of my life i really couldnt care less...im so excited to be a mom:)