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abusive husband
So I lied to my husband and said I cheated so he wont believe our child is his. Im terrifed of him being around my child he very abussive. So I skipped town. Is there a way he can find me being so that I am his legal wife?
thx hun
All the best to you! Stay away!! And keep safe.
im in cali
i rather dissappear
that was my point exactly why i didnt want a restraining order because i dont want him knowing my where abouts. but what im trying to find out now is being so he is my legal husband can he force me to go to court if he cant find me to serve me papers for my unborn child when he is born. I think im going to call family court and find out the information
by the way a restraining order is only a peice of paper unless you act on it. it will also disclose where you live and work. info given to me by the police. is it worth it and do you need it, or would you be better off disapearing?
Ive been there, I also did the same thing. my girls dad did not know wherr we where until I whent to court, to ensure her safety. so when you go for your divorce, plan on moving again and stick to your story of the baby not being his. you will not be able to get maintnance from him by this. though sometimes its better that way. if the courts find the baby to be his, he will be granted access to the baby and will pay maintnance, however he will also know where you and baby are for the rest of your life. I wish you the best of luck momma. I know the road you are walking is a hard one, but I know you can do it.
yea i realized that
Jrob0530 where r u from??
Getting a restraining order is easier said than done. Keep all evidence you have of abuse, stalking etc. plus be a "cop caller" whenever your in trouble, it's a process, but in the end remember it's only a piece of paper not a kevlar vest. Protect your self &protect your baby even if you have to fall off the map. I don't know what state your in but here ANY child conceived during a marriage is legally the husbands weather or not.he's the biological father. Good Luck & Be Safe
Go to a women's shelter. They will help you get in touch with the proper people. It can be hard at first but you are doing the right thing. Stay strong and keep positive.
hey hun thats very sweet of you i'm fine just dealing with all that comes with separation. i'm looking into a domestic shelter now but the problem is they want me to leave my job for a little while and that's my only source of income. But i'm definitely okay just distancing myself from all our friends that we share and everyone that has contact with him. I went to Jamaica and posted some pic on my face book and said it was California so if anyone's watching they think i moved to cali I also changed my number to a cali number so it easier to believe.
Has anyone heard from Krissyluv? I've sent a message to check on her but have yet to hear back. I would like to know she is ok.
Get help from the battered womens shelter in your area. They will help you protect yourself and baby. You Should also be sure not to call into the trap of him saying sorry, I didn't mean it, it won't happen again, etc. Please go and get help, but be sure to let your parents know you are safe. Best wishes to you.
You cant get into trouble for keeping an unborn child from him. He has no ties until baby is born.
I'm with tippashay
I aggree.go to the police.hire a lawyer if u can !!!!
You can try finding a women's shelter. They should have professionals who can help you know what your options are plus it's a pretty safe place to stay while you figure out your next steps. Good luck.
Get a restraining order if he has sent you any threatning text messages make copies and give them to police. Any pictures of your bruises as well. If you don't want him around your child start now tell them you are pregnant and afraid of him. Like the other post stated low key is a must. You should only use cash and make sure your gps location is off on your cell phone and if you're on Facebook so you're not disclosing anything. Best of luck to you I'm happy you removed yourself from that situation. If he tries to convince you to meet him don't and if he calls you don't answer. There is a domestic violence hotline I think you should talk to them they will assist you on how to stay safe.
I lied because he very abussive. I Had to get away from him
Oh wait, you did leave him oops* congrats. But you can get in trouble for keeping his kid away w/ out court consent.
Here's advice, leave him.
Wait I'm not understanding.... You lied to your husband saying that you cheated when you didn't? That's what that sounded like you said. If that's the case why would you do that?
Make sure to get a restraining order... he still might find you and sue you for a paternity test... and since he is the legal father (whether you cheated or not)... they will give him one if he requests it... best of luck to you
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