annoyed with boyfriend rant

[sermi88]

Normally my boyfriend goes and plays hockey every Monday night. His games normally start around 8 or 9 and he has to leave the house around 7PM to make it on time. We both agreed that when I went full term that he would take a break from hockey in case I go Into Labor. I get that he loves his hockey but it infuriates me that he is still going to play tn. He knows how pissed I am that he is going to play tn. When Jr should be home with us. If I go into labor I won't be able to get ahold of him till his game is over. I just feel he's being very selfish and he should be home with us. I don't know if its the hormones or I'm really upset about this. Especially cause it is just an adult league, its not like its professional hockey. GRRRRRRRR

[sermi88]

Chanieb I made that comment to him tn "it must be nice to go and do whatever you want because if you were 37 weeks pregnant you sure wouldn't be playing hockey". I guess that's why I feel he's being selfish. As women we give up a lot to carry our babies and I'm not complaining, I wanted this baby more than anything but its so frustrating when he can't give up a few Mondays of playing hockey in case I go into labor or something happens..sigh

[chanieb]

I understand how u feel my husband does the same thing...he fights at a gym and he goes almost every day to practice...it drives me nuts but I just had to learn to deal with it. He claims that's the only time he has to himself and he feels better after he works out but all I can think about is when do I get time to myself NEVER. Men are selfish plus he's 27 and has maturing to do if u ask me.

[sermi88]

I get that, that's why we agreed he would play up until I was full term. I'm 37 weeks now and we got in a fight about earlier this afternoon and he still came home from work got his stuff and left to play hockey. Like I said if something were to happen I wouldn't be able to gt ahold of him for hrs till his game is over.

[maw4389]

Maybe he's trying to play while he can? I'm sure he knows that once baby comes he won't really get to play anymore.