another mother in-law rant! ughhhhh

[loveYou4Ever11]

So me and my bf live with his mom.  I've been getting all my mail here. Food stamp papers, hospital papers etc.
So since she can't have anybody living here with her she told my bf shed pay for a P.O box to get my mail sent too. me and her really haven't been on kool terms lately but i agreed. She gave me the info and when my bf wasnt around she tells me "do it before Wednesday if not i will look up your info and I'll do it myself". That really pissed me off. I told her you don't need to look anything up because I'll do it myself.so she tells me "don't give me attitude im just saying". I just feel like My information is my info and ill be damned if someone trys to mess with it. So i leave it at that and when i get home i look at the area code to the p.o box which is nowhere near here! Im almost positive it's a friend's p.o box and she's just saying she paid for it because she's a liar!& this iknow. Im not ok with my mail going somewhere else...i don't trust anybody...am i wrong? Or what should i say or do when she brings it up again? Im getting so tired of her already..not to mention she even hides pop and food from me and my bf...like who does that? I put food and drinks in this house as well and this is grinding my gears! Two can play that game though. Srry for the long rant!!just had to get this off my chest.

[loveYou4Ever11]

See itll be different if my bf wasn't paying her for anything. But he pays bills here too. So i get that its "her house" but he has to have a say as well. My own house would be lovely. But until then whatever happens happens. All i know is that I'm done kissing her ***

[p_cakesss]

Well, dnt complain and just go with it until you guys can get ur own place and not have to deal with her trips.

[loveYou4Ever11]

Yeah it is her house but it's about to be a year now. All of a sudden she's worried about mail? She can fool the next person but not me & if i could afford it i wouldn't be complaining about it now.

[p_cakesss]

If you can afford it, you should get ur own P.O Box. I understand how you feel about ur mail. But, as far as everything else, that is her house, so there's really nothing that you can do or say.

[m_Johnson]

My sister in law does the same thing. I live in a house where there is me and my husband, husband's twin brother, older brother and his wife. She will throw away food I just bought to make room for her stuff and hide food in there room and won't clean up after herself while eating.