I got pregnant with an IUD and cried about it for 4 months I can totally relate. I am also in graduate school... we'll figure it out xo
I'm a firm believer in you are only given what you can handle. I had a hard time getting pregnant so we just thought it will take years. Then a yr before our wedding I get pregnant! Everything worked out..we had an amazing wedding and I love looking back and seeing pictures of my daughter with us. Maybe this will bring you guys closer..maybe having a child will give you that extra push to study even harder. It will all work out I promise! It's ok to freak out right now..you will soon be so in love you won't remember why you were scared in the first place. Just remember to rely on family and friends you will need the support when you go back to school or work!
I think it's normal to be nervous at any point in your life when you find out youre having a baby. Once you have some time to relax and wrap your head around it all I hope youll be happy! Think of all the positive! Good luck and God bless