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ftm and scared ********....

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Ftm/13weeks. I never planned on ever getting pregnant....im terrified of giving birth:\
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Whoa...ladies...it's not as bad as these stories you hear. Yes it hurts. But the pain will pass. And thankfully we live in an age of advanced medical and pain management care! I've done it twice and I'm doing it again this October. I promise all of you that all the pain you feel during birth will be worth it all the moment you meet your baby. Being a first time mommy is so exciting! Your about to experience the most amazing love you have ever known so don't be afraid about the process, instead celebrate the gift!!
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I'm 27 and a ftm and can say so far I'm not scared yet. I'm currently almost 10 weeks... I am pretty miserable though. I've seen my fair share of deliveries so the labour part doesn't make me nervous yet but I do get a little anxiety when I have my tests done like blood tests, glucose test, etc
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Omg. I am too. I'm so scared I've made.myself sick. Given myaelf an anxiety attack. I'm 27. And I have 12. Days left. I think I'm just terrified of the contractions part. Blahhh
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I'm FTM - it is scary, I'm feeling so sick that I keep thinking "why did I decide this was a good idea?"
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I'm not a ftm, but I remember when I was and I was very nervous and scared. This is number 5 and I still get nervous. Don't worry too much though, you'll be fine.... we are women and our bodies were meant to do this. Good luck!
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erwestfa totally agree I have 98 more days I feel like I'm going to have a anxiety attack every person keep telling me horrible story and how much painful it is plus my whole life my mom told me 'girl don't have no babies it hurt' in her words plus made me watch women give birth everyday and my husband sister is like you better do this and you better do that if you don't you gon be in labor for 3 days blah blah blah shut up I don't want to hear your horrible stories so annoying
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I am scared also.. Granted I'm 26.. This is still scary.. I believe in God and he has my faith.. I know he will provide my every need!! I can't wait to meet my son in July!! Best wishes to you all!!
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Thank you. All I can think about is the horror stories I keep hearing :-(
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I'm ftm too . Just believe in God and be brave . You can handle it . Congratulations
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