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So my last period was on August 4th I had sex a day after my period was over and guy #1 came inside me and then 2 weeks later we had sex again with the same guy and he came inside me again and it said that on the 21st of august I was 2 weeks pregnant and my ovulation and conception was on the 22nd of august and I had sex with another guy on the 23rd or 24th of august and my due date is may 14 is guy #1 the father or guy #2?
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In my opinion #1..but I think u should definatly get the dna test like everyone said. Its very close!! Someone my co worker new went threw court and they were able to do it at the time of delivery for free. Depending on where u are from! I do wish you the best of luck and congrats on baby!! Please let us know!
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Ok. On the 21st they said u were 2 weeks pregnant because doctors start counting from LMP, not because u got pregnant that day. U had sex around the 18, n sperm can stay inside u up to 5 days. If ovulation n conception ocurred the 22, theres a posibility that sperm from #1 had stayed there waiting to fertilize. If it didn't,  youd b from #2. But i highly doubt it. I think it should b #1.
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7406493 tn?1453999212
From my understanding its guy #1 because you said ur already two weeks pregnant on the 21st and slept with guy #2 on the 23  although ovulation started on the 22nd it is highly. Likely that you had sperm in you from guy #1 on the 22nd. sperm lives for up to 48hrs so his sperm was successful .& guy # 2 was just sex .I would still get a dna test though because it's best for the baby. You cant have an inkling of doubt. Well u can but no one wants that.
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I know this is random but were due on the same day! Lol. (:
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You had sex w dude #1 two weeks after your period, which is around the time you ovulate, and guy #2 23 or 24. They were to close to ovulation days. There's five days for that open window of getting pregnant. Conception day could've been in between the five days of ovulation. That's pretty hard to figure out. If you were two weeks already by the 21st, that means you got pregnant from dude #1 on the 5th. That's weird tho. It depends on your menstrual cycle n how long it lasts.
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You had sex w dude #1 two weeks after your period, which is around the time you ovulate, and guy #2 23 or 24. They were to close to ovulation days. There's five days for that open window of getting pregnant. Conception day could've been in between the five days of ovulation. That's pretty hard to figure out. If you were two weeks already by the 21st, that means you got pregnant from dude #1 on the 5th. That's weird tho. It depends on your menstrual cycle n how long it lasts.
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13167 tn?1327194124
Doing the math,   you had sex with guy #1 on the 18th of August,  and sex with guy #2 on the 23rd,  and the calendar indicates you ovulated on August 22nd.  

Way too close to call - this will have to be determined by a DNA test.

When you say you were 2 weeks pregnant on the 21st,  that's extremely confusing for almost all moms.  That means it was two weeks since your last menstrual cycle began.  

To determine how far along a pregnancy is,  the doctor counts back to the first day of a woman's menstrual cycle - so in fact,  you get two "free" weeks at the beginning of a pregnancy.

This is one of those cases where neither guy is the more likely father - they are pretty much have an equal chance.
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7019649 tn?1396792517
It is too close to tell. Conception dates, as well as due dates are just estimates based on the average woman. Every woman's cycle is different. Typically, ovulation is 1-2 weeks after your period, and it can last 2 days, so you would have been the most fertile then. Most of us are just trying to say there is no way to know without a paternity test. I worked for an OB/GYN, so I'm very familiar with the calculations.
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You were obviously already pregnant when you had sex with guy #2.. per your dates. .
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Reread my question yall. I dont think yall are getting it
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5891248 tn?1406410864
Idk how your.ovulation is but I know for my first pregnancy I had a full period and was pregnant. I think your babys dad is guy #1
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You can get semi cheap paternity test at Walgreen. And you mail it off. What you gotta pay for is the actual lab test. It WAS like... 85. I can't remember. That's how my brother did his. He was in same situation. But baby came out looking just like him.  Maybe it'll be obvious and you can test the right one.

Stay on the positive side.
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You cannot be sure on dates alone you will have to get a DNA test. No way around it
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Idk the answr thr but thr is a prenatal paternity test you can take with at least one of the guys involved...its expensive tho :(
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It is possible to get pregnant while on or just after your period, but thats a pretty close call...might have to wait til baby is born and do a dna test...
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