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cussing....

I posted this once....but I don't wanna cuss my husband out while in pain...is it true that this happens alot???
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7552771 tn?1469929649
With my first I told my ex I hated him. The only person I cussed at was a nurse who kept telling me don't scream and she wouldn't help me hold my leg even though I needed the help because of the drugs and she wouldn't so I screamed at her and said then what f*cking use are you get out. This time I won't be getting drugs the drugs made me panic really bad because I didn't know what was happening around me. It all depends on you.
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7552771 tn?1469929649
With my first I told my ex I hated him. The only person I cussed at was a nurse who kept telling me don't scream and she wouldn't help me hold my leg even though I needed the help because of the drugs and she wouldn't so I screamed at her and said then what f*cking use are you get out. This time I won't be getting drugs the drugs made me panic really bad because I didn't know what was happening around me. It all depends on you.
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I had one friend that said please and thank you to everyone for everything the whole time she was giving birth the nurses thought it was hilarious. With both my first to I joked around with my husband the whole time I found it helped me to keep it light in the room and to just be positive.
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With my 1st baby I cursed but I didn't cuss at people lol
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Depends, on you! How you will be feeling at that time!
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7128540 tn?1399083912
^^^ lol, that must've woken him up! ^__^
Honestly,  I've never cussed during my labors- much less at my hubby. I am tempted to, though. Like someone mentioned you hurt yourself you can't help it but being that I get a little embarrassed saying it in front of people I just say it under my breath. I don't think I can cuss at hubby because just seeing his expression of nervousness/fear get the best of me and melt my heart... However,  we'll see how this one goes because my temper has been pretty high in this pregnancy.
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6628393 tn?1398789276
I felt like punching my husband. I went into labor starting at 4 am and didnt wake him up for atleast another hour until my water broke. Plus with all the "great" sleep that you get while pregnant he got a significant more amount of sleep than what I did. Well he fell asleep at the hospital for over 2 hours. Thank goodness for the tv that kept me occupied. I wasnt thrilled.
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7921491 tn?1398169945
^I just laughed so hard reading that.
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I think it depends on how you handle pain and the mindset you have going into labor. I never really told anyone off or yelled but I did throw my phone st hubbys head because he fell asleep and I dropped my call light and needed ice chips lol
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7921491 tn?1398169945
Cussing makes me feel better when I hurt myself. So I can only imagine how labor is going to be. I think my husband is scared haha
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I've heard that cussing while in pain somehow makes you feel better? I donno but i think ill just apologize to everyone before hand lol just incase
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Okay because I hear of ppl cussing out there husbands and nurses and doctors...I don't want to be that girl
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6628393 tn?1398789276
I didnt .. The most I did was to tell him to shut the heck up because he kept trying to talk to me about who knows what during a contraction and wasnt getting the hint when i held up my finger for him to wait.
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