death & pregnancy

[julii_itsagirl]

Just found out at 3am that my uncles has passed away I ben an emotional wreck went to bed around 5 slept what I could & up and aylt it again today me belly feels tights & lite cramping on the sides l.  Hard to keep calm when all I want to do is be with my family but cant they will not let me.. btw 26+5

[julii_itsagirl]

Thank you all

[lovejayden3310]

My cousin passed while i expected my first i went and all but fainted.. you just never know how you will react to that type thing  you know know im expecting #2 and had a friend pass but this time im stearing clear.. better safe than sorry.. sorry for your loss also

[shastas84]

Maybe the big reason they are saying not to is the distance you would have to travel?

[jerica86]

My grandmother passed when I was pregnant with my first they let me be there but I had to stay strong and try not to breakdown so it was hard

[julii_itsagirl]

Thank you hun uugh I would have to travel to PR & my family is still saying no I would take my son too but its hard to be calm when its ur nothers brother

[shastas84]

I was pregnant with my 2nd son and my uncle passed. My family is very old school. So by custom I was not allowed to attend the funeral. I have not really gotten over that yet. And my second is 9. Maybe if you explain to them that you will be calmer and better off around them. Also point out that you are feeling a little disconnected from them. It may help. Sorry for your loss.