do all men watch porn & get off on it?

[Lilly747]

I'm 27, happily married to a wonderful guy. I love him with all my heart.
The problem is, I don't agree to the Whole porn viewing/ masturbating to it. I feel betrayed, and like I'm not good enough  for him. We've talked about it but he can't give it up. It's not excessive, but when it happens, I'm pretty hurt, cuz he tries to hide it  from me. Do all men, committed to their partners do this? I'm so sad!

[Tanjat]

I don't see anything wrong with watching porn, whether it's your husband watching it or you.   I agree with the poster above that said that just because a man watches porn doesn't mean he's not faithful.   Men are visual and enjoy the visual stimulation.  I'm a woman and I watch it probably more than my husband does and it certainly doesn't mean that I don't love my husband or that I would stray.  Far from it!  

[mrsemmett]

Good for u! Glad u sorted things out :-)

[brendaandflip]

More power to the women who can watch porn with their husband but I feel like in a relationship you have to have mutual feelings on certain things specially like those. Some women are ok with it and some women are not, now it's just up to u how u want to do things. I personally rather not know or even hear of that I just feel like it's gross......

[Lilly747]

It go.. In fact, when I'm needy, I know where to  turn when he's not around, n he won't judge me for it.

[Lilly747]

I guess I should have added, that I had our baby almost two months ago, and my sex drive is so much higher then his, but becuz we have Kids, its hard to find time for ourselves. He doesn't sit around and watch it, its in the mornings, before work, n he admitted to me why he does it.. I am ok with that now that we had the talk.. I'm gunna let out go

[Ashymc]

My husband and I have been together 10 years,  we are on baby number 3. I know he watches porn,  I have no issue work it as long as it stays at watching and he's doing they pleasing to himself.  I've watched with him,  we've created or own.  Change up the sex scenerio. I have roughly 3 weeks left in this pregnancy,  I'm in constant pain n well pretty bitchy, he's constantly asking for sex so when I'm not feeling it I don't mind him handling his business.  I'd much rather know so I'm not walking in on it blind sided.  He's no way addicted by any means,  porn is a fantasy for most guys. I suggest telling your hubby how it makes you feel and ask if he can respect your wishes.  Have a very laid back convo abs be open minded.  Don't judge him for watching, when he's done talking calmly express how you feel as his wife and a woman and see if you 2 can work it.