question(ni rude comments)

[ericacrdn1]

I had my baby exactly 6 weeks agi vaginally no.tears just some grazes.anyways.
I had intercouse with my partner after 2 weeks of giving birth stopped bleeding  pull out method no.condum.
Then again 3 or 4times this.time.no.oulling out as we were to.into.it so he did *** in me (tmi)
But it happened.I know I was suppose to wait and its not safe yeah I been threw that talk so dont tell.me plz.
Anyways this week ive had some spotting nothing major.and some more these past few days but its brownish and then pinkish tint.. is. That normal.or should.I be worried its only when I wipe so doesnt fill a pad at all.or just barely in a pantiliner.I took a PG test last week it was neg but was it to early it that was the case? Ihavent had my first period yet,baby is 6weeks n 2days.I eant some input please like ibsaid no rude comments im grown. Thank you

[ericacrdn1]

UpdAte still getting tinybrownish stuff n a lil  pink every so ofeten no blood thou.so no.period still. Baby will be 7weeks tuesday.just been feeling off and kinda nauseated...

[ericacrdn1]

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[ericacrdn1]

Thanks.
Im bottle feeding him.
Well lets see how this all happens with him we got prego in a month pretty fast so we will see. N if not then ill look into bc..
I should wait another 2weeks then

[Mama6hijos]

* Can't expect, I meant

[Mama6hijos]

Not having regular periods is absolutely common!! You can expect your body to be completely reprogrammed right after giving birth. You can expect an actual first menstrual period any time from 6 weeks to 3 months. Every woman is different and if you have breastfed (even a few times and not exclusively) then that alone can delay your menstrual cycle. Pregnancy before 6 weeks is rare ( although it's possible), very few woman begin to ovulate directly after giving birth. Yes, after birth your fertile but to the extent that you will fall pregnant at two weeks post delivery. 6 weeks is the recommend time line to begin a birth control method as many  woman's menstruation cycle returns and that also may mean she will begin ovulating once. But it's different for every woman. Spotting off and on, is common. Remember you began having sexual intercourse before your body was completely healed. Your vagina and cervix etc are still extremely sensitive. Spotting can be your body expelling any unneeded bleeding that may have been caused from the intercourse. Or your body is putting it's defense system to work and expelling any possible pending infection. Basically what your experiencing could most certainly be common. Your not in the wrong for choosing to have sexual intercourse before your recommend time line after delivering a baby, our emotions are at its all time high, a new baby can cause us to want to show sexual affection, completely common. Be very proud that you have a sex drive, few woman do. BUT try letting your body heal a bit!!! Give you body time to regulate. Talk to your doctor, discuss what your symptoms are and explain your emotions got the best of you and that you had sexual intercourse. He/she can do a blood test, this is most accurate then a urine test. Also look into getting a safe birth control method (every woman is different, so therefore there are some birth control that carry risks with different medical conditions). Ask your doctor which of those are best for your body. Best of wishes and congratulations!!!

[mommy2Bof3LO]

I would say pink blood if it was implantation or that he hurt you a little..brown blood if it was old blood. Take a test in about 2/3 more weeeks maybe.

[jackattackie]

If you are breast feeding your period may not come back for a long while.  I didn't have a period until maybe 10-12 months after birth. It usually takes a couple months for the body to get back on track with the period thing.

[rosealie23]

Wait and test again, I had same problem. After my third baby I went to the doctor my baby was three months old and I was three months pregnant....

[mrs_palomo08]

Oh hun!  U are the most fertile right after childbirth!  I had to learn that the hard way!  When my first born was 3 months i found out i was 4 weeks pregnant with my second. I waited till my 6 week check up to be active but the condom tore.  Take another test next week and if ur not pregnant than get on bc if u don't want ur kids back to back...good luck!

[Jade_Elouise518]

It sounds like you could be pregnant possibly.  even if you haven't got your first period yet it's still def. Possible!!

[ash060115]

Well if your not ready then go get a contraceptive . Though they'll probably make you wait until you get a period ? :/
Just use condoms until then

[ericacrdn1]

He does.but im.not ready yet I have a 3 yr old and this is his firat baby,If anything I will still be happy.but he wants another baby.

[ash060115]

Could still be either as your still healing.

Do you want another pregnancy now?

[LucyMarie1991]

Wait a few more weeks and test again. But if you don't want another baby before your first is out of diapers then think about some form of bc

[ericacrdn1]

Last time we did anything was last week and it was about 3-4 times. N first time was when baby was 2 weeks hes now.6w...

[ash060115]

Could be that you tore a little inside , or could be pregnant.  

Also the brownish Could be blood that hadn't come out and it came out with sex.

I'd wait a few weeks and test again.