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attachment issues
Hello everyone I am currently 37 weeks with my 4th and don't really feel a connection or that I will be attached to him like I was my others...my last Lil guy has had some health problems and he has been my main focus... I wasn't trying to get pregnant nor were We expecting it so soon... I really want ed d a little girl and I cried when I found out it was a boy... I am really just happy he looks healthy... I am just having mixed feelings on if we will bond right away or If it will take time... my 2 year old has been my main focus and just thinking of another one makes me nervous and scared... I plan on getting a tubal done after I have this little guy... I love all of my kiddos just wanted to see if anyone else had this issue at first...
Thank you guys... i am really worried.. I love this little guy and I know that he will be loved I am just scared I guess..lol...
I wouldn't worry too much. You'll feel that bond once the baby is born, even if it takes a little time.
It seems like the more pregnancies I go through the less connection I feel during pregnancy. Don't get me wrong I feel worry and love but just no real connection. It does come after birth and can take a few weeks.
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