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39 weeks n can't wait anymoee

I'm 39+3 and am so tired of waiting for the baby to come out. The last two weeks feel like the whole 9 months! What can I do to get this baby moving beside walking....my boyfriend is all of sudden afraid of having sex cos he doesn't want to hurt the baby. Which I found awkward cos all he wanted 2-3 months ago was to have sex with me. Which I never wanted. I hated sex througout the pregnancy til about a week ago. Sometimes I feel so fat n ugly and feel like he's punishing me  for not wanting to have sex throughout the pregnancy.
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I guess they will come when they are ready. I wish you all the best ladies!  Let's keep your fingers crossed.
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im 39 weeks as of today and i have been having really bad contractions but they are not close enough. i have been 1 cm dilated for 4 weeks now.:(  the midwife said that my cervix is really loose and it is like my body wants to get things started but has not got completely there yet. i am sooo tired of waiting for baby to come because i am tired of all these aches and pains. she told me to do alot of walking and squats but i climd stairs everyday and it still has not made any change. i just give up. she said i can be like this for another 1 to 2 weeks.
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Unfortunately there's nothing you can do. Im 40 weeks and still waiting on my LO to come on out of there. Ive tried sex, walking, bouncing on a yoga ball.. everything I can think of and nothing :( They just come when they're ready.. Just try and take it easy and be as patient as you can really.
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