feeling Bad :-(

[linnymay_81]

So after convincing my hubby to have sex (cause hes been to scared too) I never reached orgasim. which happens from time to time anyways... I got so upset and told him that I was Disappointed and what a waste of time it was. He tried to talk to me after and I just ijnored him. Now he wont come to bed and I feel like an *******. I know i over reacted but I really am bummed cause seriously its been wks and I just wanted to have sex and climax together! Ahhhhhg Just needed to vent.

[thspeach_02]

That's part of the reason my mister is big into foreplay, he will get me all worked up and good that way it's just more enjoyment for when he finally finishes... try stepping out of the box maybe?

[m_r_p]

Foreplay is so important ;)

[janarams2004]

Me and my husband have tried to have sex many times throughout this pregnancy and neither of us are able to climax. It has been so frustrating for both of us, but we kept trying because we want eachother touch, ya know.
We discuss it and move on. I am due sunday... thank goodness

[Babygirl271983]

Have you tried using toys they never fail!!

[Babygirl271983]

Have you tried using toys they never fail!!

[linnymay_81]

Thanks for the response lady's. I did say sorry and he juat smiled and said hes not upset. Im used to stimulating my self while we have sex but once he came I loose concentration and just give up. Hes pretty good at staying hard till I get there but being so far along is harder to reach orgasim! He gave me a massage to make me feel better. I just need to remind myself I have a Good Man!

[Shaynaruth]

I'm 15w+1 and we haven't had sex since conception.  Not because we don't WANT to, but because for nearly the whole first trimester I was so sick with morning sickness 24/7 and right after I got over the morning sickness, I wound up with a HORRIBLE cold/sinus infection that put me out of commission.  We did TRY once around 12 weeks, but I hurt so bad we had to stop.  Planning on trying again soon now that this cold is going away (finally).  Never wanted it so bad in my whole life!  Lol

[sanja25]

Go and say you are sorry

[m0mmy_cruz]

Don't give him a hard time. It's harder for us to have an orgasm while pregnant... The last time I had one if I cn remember I was probably getting to my 3month. As it is we barely have sex now, I'm 39+2 and literally bug him to have sex w me so the sperm can help me go into labor.. Guilty!! Lol

[joamb]

I agree with the ladies ^^ above.
My husband has not been interested in sex since I've been pregnant and we've only done it maybe 5-10 times my whole pregnancy. It is very difficult especially being horny and pregnant. Some men are really just not comfortable with the idea that there is a baby inside you. Or they are afraid of causing early Labour or complications to the child. It's also strange for them as you get bigger in many areas they feel strange like they are doing someone who doesn't resemble their partner. Just be patient I hope he comes around.

[dreamland21]

Yup the last post is what we do too, since we dont do it as often he finishes pretty quickly and i've been taking pretty long to get there so he helps me out. Try it! Good luck

[destinymc7]

Why don't you have him assist you? Sometimes my hubby comes too early so I pleasure myself while he stimulates me. Best of both worlds and he feels happy and successful that I was able to come too.