fighting and arguing

[reags83]

Is anyone else arguing and fighting with their partner all the time? My hormones feel like they are all over the place but somehow I feel like it's my fault we are arguing and bickering about lots of little things. I'm 7 weeks and I don't want to be grumpy and sad all the time.

[reags83]

I hope everyone is well and bubs are great. I'm still extremely hormonal emotional angry arguing. Ahh the list goes on. I became good for a week or 2 and this week has hit me and my poor husband for a 6. I'm exhausted again not sleeping hating on everything and everyone.

[Full_time_mommy_wife]

Yeah lol the hubby and I r going out for date night tonight so we can keep things happy. Im excited. It kinda feels like when we were first dating like I can't wait for him to get here and take me out

[FruitLoop123]

Me and my boyfriend were at eachothers throats, well me at his, from December til about April, then suddenly my hormones were back in check and we have been getting along GREAT since then! I am 3 days over due and if anyone asks him how Ive been throughout the pregnancy he has nothing but nice things to say(almost like he forgot about me wanting to leave him in January!) Haha it will get better I promise! People told me that I would hate him again towards the end of it but they were wrong, still couldnt be happier!

[Full_time_mommy_wife]

Ive been feeling pretty bad bc I have been getting onto my husband over the littlest things but to me in that moment they r big things. And his familu especially his mother has been horrible to me mu whole pregnancy. I know its not mu husbands fault so now I jist really try to make sure he feels appreciated and let him know he is a great husband and that I love him. He works hard to protect me from his families bad behavior and he works hard to provide for our family seeing I am on bed rest. At times I hate myself bc I feel like input him under stress and pressure but he always assures me he is happy. I guess its my hormones makig me nervous about nothing really. So instead of getting onto anyone especially my hubby I just have a little cry when I need it when im alone and have time yo myself to relax so I dont take any stress I have out on him or my 3 yr old or his family. Let me just say we havr had to totallu cut off his mother and familu except his dad bc they have been just so damn misable to br around. They actually make it unhealthy for me to be around or speak to them. I can't even answer their phone calls. My husband does all that. Well he did anyway. He doesn't anymore. Sorry for the long comment lol it turned into a vent

[deltagreen9913]

I feel like all we do is fight. I don't feel like he's supporting me and I'm alone in all of this. I'm 32 weeks with gd and preeclampsia. Everything is getting harder for me to do and he won't step up and help. I want to bash him over his head almost every day to get his butt in gear. And he has the most stupid excuses.

[reags83]

Thank your all so much. Just knowing that I'm not the only one who is having trouble with this had really helped today. Yes I may have eaten more carbs and sugar than I would normally but I didn't want to rip shreds of my husband today.  We had laughs like we would have done before we got pregnant. Hopefully this is a sign of things to come for us and for all you ladies going thru these testing times as a partner and mum to be.

[hellojojo2200]

Yeah..totally..all the time..over the smallest stuff...were both going thru alot of stresz and worry right now....about some pretty heavy stuff (not related to pregnancy)....but being pregnant makes me so emtional and bitchy..
And we bicker like never b 4...I hope it will all get better..at least I kno some.of it will when I have our baby ..keep ur head up

Ur not alone

[red84angel]

I'm moody anyway but take meds to help. Last week, my husband had to go out and fill the water jugs and told me he was going to buy a pregnancy test. Sure enough, super light line but there it was. I asked him 2 days later why he randomly decided to buy a test. Apparently, I've been moodier than usual and he was really wanting there to be a reason why lol

[reags83]

Thank you all for your stories abd suggestions. I'll write back in detail later xx

[maanja]

Yep. As soon as I found out. We were both all over the place with our emotions. Know that its normal and it will get better. Try to communicate differently by not reacting to everything but when u have pillow talk thats the moment that you express your concerns

[Courtneyx0]

I was the same was in the beginning of my pregnancy and it went away and was back to normal for a short time, now very hormonal. Me and my boyfriend fight all the time, everything he does seems to aggervate me. I cant wait to get back to my normal self again.. my poor hubby lol

[anita801]

I've always had a feisty attitude even before pregnancy. But now I'm constantly fighting with everyone, even with my boss at work and when I see its getting out of control, I shut up, walk away, get myself a small sweet treat and tell everyone to shut up with a smile and they get the picture. Not easy to ignore what irritates you but if you make it clear, some people will understand.

[giraffe1020]

Since you recognize it, take a time out when you are feeling grumpy and he says something that sets you off or you find something you want to nitpick. Talk about it calmly, because your feelings are still valid. Just take more breaks

[mrspoofy0913]

Me and my husband fight a lot more now I was complain and b itch to him about what he is doing or whatever. It is only when I am pregnant.  

[maryleeruiz80]

yup felt like through my whole pregnancy we have.. and then last night he wants to go out and not show up until the morning... im so annoyed

[babygyal]

i fight with my husband evry day i cnt help it i end up crying my self hate feeling like this

[tracyrich926]

I was like that about weeks 8-16.  I finally calmed down but i also went back on mild antidepressants that i was off of for a year

[jennyonnumber3]

Yes. Some how I blam him for everything even if its not his fault. We argue about the littlest things and we never argued before. Only when I'm pregnant.

[ahlesha921]

It'll go away for a Lil bit then returns.. I'm 26 weeks n I just wanna punch everyone in the face n rip heads off :) I don't think its completely gonna go away until I know I've done everything and prepared for baby