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Just found out today.  I had a miscarriage.  This was my first pregnancy. I just don't know how to process it at the moment, I just really can't see beyond this point now.  I want to start to make another baby.  For anyone that had a miscarriage how long until you conceived again and ended up with a successful pregnancy?
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So sorrt for ur loss, I had a miscarriage two years ago I was 11 weeks and my baby didn't have a heart beat! So I had to have a dnc done around our anniversary, I cried a lot but now I am 29 weeks and my baby is healthy and just waiting for her to come! So dont lose hope cuz god will bless u :-)
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7074486 tn?1389932822
Im so sorry for your loss, I to just miscarried Wednesday this will be second in 3 months. Believe me it is hard to process. Time heals and with god and great family we shall heal. If u ever wanna talk please feel free to message me. Take care mama u shall get ur miracle one day.
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So sorry for your loss. I miscarried at 5wks.  My obgyn said to wait a month before trying again. I waited and it then took me 9 months to get pregnant again.  Personally it took a few days for it to sink in for me, before i could process what had happened.  Time heals all, best wishes to you on your journey.
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I had a missed miscarriage October 27, waited till after one normal period and then started trying. I'm now 16.5 wks and so far so good. It's tough but I truly believe everything happens for a reason. Stay strong!
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I had a miscarriage in Dec and I'm now almost 6 weeks prego .... hopefully things turn out good this time ..but just a little insight on getting pregnant again ...make sure u have a great relationship with Ur OB ...with every cramp and every discomfort I'm calling my Dr and she's doing all my tests and early ultra sounds to lay my worries to rest ... I'm so grateful for her to understand .... it's very difficult and terrifying .. I cried for literally a month after ... just know it doesn't mean u can't try again and make sure Ur ready to ..only time will heal ...and prepare to be worried and over protective next time ...I didn't realize how scared this time would make me ... if u can afford a Doppler it might help keep Ur worries at rest.. good luck and we will be here sending good thoughts Ur way !!!!!
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7246896 tn?1392863749
Sorry for your loss
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7642836 tn?1410611040
Best of luck to you and your family!
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Thanks everyone.  Your comments really give me hope
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I had a MC on Dec 2012 I was 12 weeks pregnant I got a BFP on June 2013 but at 6 weeks I had another MC. At that time I just wanted to die and didn't want to try anymore. In September I got the flu really bad after that I went to my Ob to find out what happens with the June baby. Thats when I found out I was 8 weeks pregnant, I'm now 37 weeks with baby boy. Sorry just know I'll pray for you to have peace in your heart.
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I'm sorry for your loss hun, I had a miscarriage last October.. I'm still not really over it, but thank God I got pregnant again and I am now 10 weeks pregnant.. I tried the first time this time was pure miracle. Don't give up hope.
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Just wanted to show you my support in this difficult time. I so sorry you are going through this.
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So sorry for your loss but never give up hope. I had a mc in October last year and I'm nearly 16wks now. Things take time to heal but you will get there. One step at a time.xx
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I'm so very sorry for your loss mama.
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7543158 tn?1391978069
My husband an I have been trying for 5 years. I had a miscarriage in may 2011, didn't get pregnant again until dec 2012 and miscarried that one too. Finally got pregnant again this past december and it stuck. I was told I couldn't have kids though...
lots of women have several miscarriages before finally having a baby and then they start poppin em out like pez. My advice is to just keep busy so you can't think about anything for a while. It helps.
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7944272 tn?1396708090
I miscarried all through September (didn't have insurance then) got pregnant in December I will be 15 weeks tomorrow! I know it's really hard for you right now but it's nothing you did wrong and what my doctor told me was you now know your capable of getting pregnant sometimes the body doesn't understand what is going on the first time it happens.
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Im so sorry...I had a dnc last june for my miscarriage and got pregnant in September and im not 28 weeks and healthy and I was told my chances were not good so just keep your head up but depending on how far along you were give your body some rest and I waited till my first period came and went till we tried again
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So sorry for your loss. After the first mc, it took us 6 months. My next two pregnancys resulted in a wonderful son and daughter. I had an ectopic a year after my daughter, then we waited 2 years before baby #3, who is due this October. Its tough to lose one, but it doesnt mean its the end. Prayers hon.
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7527173 tn?1395366780
Im sorry for your loss. I know how u feel. Back in 2011 i had a miscarriage and loss my grandpa all in October. I ended up getting pregnant in Feb of 2012 and having a healthy baby girl in October of 2012 so i say go for it! Good luck♥
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7763229 tn?1396626895
I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts
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7827642 tn?1396958758
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Sorry for your loss.. I miscarriage on January 2 and by January 8 I was pregnant again. Now my daughter is 2 yr old. And now I'm pregnant again 32 weeks
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So sorry for your loss! I had a miscarriage in sept last year at 9 weeks. It was a horrible couple of months for me. I cried a lot! I understand the numbing horrible pain. I'm now 15 weeks pregnant and this pregnancy is going well. So sorry for your loss, take some time to grieve and start trying whenyou think your ready. It took us a ccouple months to start trying again
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7249185 tn?1399663162
Same here two years ago at 2 months! Was hard for me but..now God gave me a babyboy! So dont give up miracles happen!! Much love to you!
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I conceived a month after my miscarriage but I didnt attempt to get pregnant so soon, its really hard to deal with:/ thankfully I'm 30 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby boy. I'm sorry for your loss momma
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