having sex on bottom

[mulani_07]

Is it bad too have sex you on bottom and him on top? And why? I did last night with my husband and I started getting back pain and a lot of cramping.

[MamaMacMurtry]

I'm a doggy or "scissors position" girl myself. Doggy is usually my favorite anyway for maximum prnitration and self manipulation-but I really like it now that I'm pregnant because I can prop pillows under my belly for support. Hubby prefers scissor style (him on his side & you propped on pillows, him between your legs with one under his bent legs and one over his waist) because he can still see me....but they both work.

[destinies56]

Doggy style is defiantly my position of choice right now. on top is good too. I'm 37 weeks and missionary is just too uncomfortable.

[mpattea]

U can try placing a pillow or pillows underneath u to help....n if it still hurts try doggie style or on ur side or u on top

[mamabear8911]

I personally like doing doggy style, so much easier. Only lay on my back on edge of bed to warm up but he doesnt lay on me he just stands on the floor. When u on your back cuts of oxygen and cause back pain bc pressure

[canadiana]

That'd be why. It's more comfortable with you on top, or laying on your side in the spooning position. When you're on your back you're putting a lot of pressure on your spine, not to mention aggravating round ligament pain. I also find that I don't like it when there's full penetration right now (my guy is on the big side, as far as penises go) and being on top, you get to control how far it goes in.