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horrible dream

So I am 37 weeks pregnant,ftm.
I have been married for two years to a man whom I love so much and I know he is in love with me.. So, before I got pregnant, I had a nice athletic body, now 37 weeks later I am 25 pounds bigger, but I still look good and I always take care of myself. He mentioned that he wants me to get back in shape once our baby is here and I know I will because that's what I want anyway..

Anyhow, I just woke up from a horrible dream, that my husband came back from on of his business trips with a bra in his suitcase, I confronted him and he confessed :(((
The pain I felt in the dream was so bad, I felt like I wanted to die..I woke up with so much pain in my chest and tears in my eyes..
I know it is a dream..But it still
managed to get to me , really bad :(
Is it the ppregnancy, my self-esteem, what is it? I cannot imagine this happening for real , because it is beyond painful... Please help me..I think my hormones are driving me crazy :(
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Vivid dreams are common in pregnancy.  And it's also a time of high stress, because having a baby is a major life change (a good one! But still a major change). So combine the two and it's quite normal to have very vivid dreams about our fears, insecurities, etc. I'd talk with your partner about it. But not accusing just getting it out there and telling him how much he means to you would probably let your mind relax some :)
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i have terrible dreams(nightmares) about my bf cheating on me....they are so realistic and i wake up broken hearted wanting to cry.... my dreams(nightmares) are much more intense and what not ever since ive been pregnant.... so im sure its cause im pregnant. but it does suck and the feeling during them and after when i wake up *****. sometimes i feel like it was real and it wasnt a dream. but it was. lol
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I have some really messed up dreams to your not alown. I am 33+1 day with twins and its an almost every other night thing for me just talk to him and express your feelings. Best of luck.
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Anyone??
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