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what can heelp me concive?

Im 32 years old I have been married for 7 years and with my husband for 10 years. When we met I had a 6 month old son and we have been trying to get pregnant for 7 years now. We would love to have a baby togeather but have not been successful and I want to know whzt to do to aide in the process that is over the counter or positions or tactics etc.... he has 3 kids of his own so I know were both able to hqve children but why is it so hard for us? 35 is my cut off year and I dont know what to do we both want this very badly and we have to do it on our own, no doctors can help because of who he has insurance through dosent cover it and to pay out of pocket would be way out of our financial bracket do to where we live ( just a pap test is 500$)  please let me know what I can do to help this process, our oldes is 17 and youngest is 12 and yes we have all 4 kids with us, we always have had them but we really want a baby togeather.
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I Read A Book Called Taking Charge Of Your Fertility. Its Especially Helpful If You Have Irregular Cycles. Also Checking Cervical Mucus Is A Great Indicator Add To When You Are Most Fertile And tracking Your Temperature Every Day Tells You When You Ovulated. That Book Goes Over It All. I Got Pregnant Within 2 Months Of Reading That Book And Doing Those Couple Things With My Daughter And It Took 4 Months To Get Pregnant This Time. Also Sex Every Other Day Is Better To Allow Sperm To Build Up In Your Husband And Propping Your Rear end Up On A Pillow Fir 15 Minutes After Sex Helps Sperm To Travel In The Right Direction...  With gravity :)  Hope That Helps. Good Luck
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Talk to your ob and see what they can do. Also track your ovulation I used the period tracker app and it helped me get pregnant after I had my iud taken out in feb. If you stress about it it can keep you from getting pregnant
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My doc put me on metformin. Apparently it helps women ovulate.  It's used for pcos sometimes, but really for type 2 diabetes.   He put me on that and said if i wasn't pregnant in two months to go back and he'll put me on clomed.  I only took it for a month.
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I am not joking... But check whether you can get coverage through the affordable care act (obamacare). You can find out at healthcare.gov
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