husband choked me

[noides]

I am 33 weeks and my husband of 2yrs choked me during an argument. It hurts to swollow/breath on the left side of my throat. It's been 2 hours....should I go to the ER??

[octobermom31]

Noises please leave him! I hope you find the strength to do so. I know its hard. Rather do this without him than stay in that relationship.
Update again. Stay strong

[strongmomma14]

Update again please. I'm saddened by your story and pray all turns/turned out ok for you!! No man should ever hit or touch anyone the way he did! That isn't being a man...it's being a punk!

[Janelaw]

But he didn't do anything to your stomach right? So how did you lose your baby?

[kprince2]

Noides I pray that you have the strength to make the best decision for you and your unborn child. Please be safe. Please leave.

[kutekaos]

Once they start, the little things, they open the door to bigger things.  I was once with a guy for 5 years and at the very end, it exploded and my house got set on fire. I was never hit, but he was so nice when I met him.  10 years later, I was subpoenaed to court to testify against him. I gladly did it too. He ended up punching the girl after me, she left him. The next girlfriend, she was too scared to leave him and he beat her to death with his fists, her face was unrecognizable, just meat. She had bone remodeling from old fractures he had beat on her so long. Brain bruising, old blood on the brain from previous beatings, he choked her and broke her hyoid bone. Her tongue had bruising on the inside from her biting down on it. Broken ribs, a lacerated spleen. He took some object they never identified and plunged it inside her vagina and that was unrecognizable too. Torn to shreds, then he beat her with that object after she was dead. Her legs, same bone remodeling, bruising. He killed her in front of their 2 year old little girl and then took that baby with him to dump her at a burn site. He admitted that the baby was there the whole time. He is a monster and deserves what he got, justice was served, I helped make sure of that!!!  But monsters, what makes them monsters, is that they are so charming, so sweet, they promise they won't do it again. They are so sorry, but they are MONSTERS, you have to leave. Choking is a serious thing, no one should ever, EVER LAY A HAND ON YOU, NO MATTER WHAT!!!  It's never ok, even if you think you deserved it, you didn't, that's what monsters do, they break you down and make you think your nothing, that it's your fault. But he's a monster, you don't need him. He has no rights to that baby unless he signs the birth certificate. Get away, be strong, don't be afraid to ask for government aid if you need it. That's respectable, be a strong woman for your baby, it won't be hard forever. But if you stay, you will have to worry about what he will do to your baby.

[mweshka]

^^ same story as u, I feel for you. I would have a 8 year old lil man right now if it wasn't for my ex throwing me down, broke my tailbone,  fractured both my wrists, and killed my lil boy I was carrying.  U obviously know what he did was wrong, but you allowing it to happen is saying its ok. I had my ex locked up within an hour.  As soon as police got there. I quit calling him my husband that night. He was that man that dare touch me. Your man makes me sick.....However,  you allowing it to happen to your baby is just as disgusting.