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As you all know I'm now off bed rest. Yay!! My doctor told me no sex no orgasm Nada...I'm fine with that because there is a good reason for it sinceim not 100% in the clear. But my problem is (and I hope you ladies can help) is that my hormones are going nuts! All I wanna do is jump all over my hubby. I'm dying for am '0'... I mean he's been looking very handsome and wearing the cologne I got him for Christmas and I just want to feelthe 'closeness'... here's my question.. how can I ignore these urges? Without going bonkerz. I know I know sounds weird. And how can we have that closeness without that temptation on either part?
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4437866 tn?1388119624
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That would be torture! I have no idea?? You always want what u can't have lol. Jeeze. As for closeness just actually be close to him. I wish I could offer more help.
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That would be torture! I have no idea?? You always want what u can't have lol. Jeeze. As for closeness just actually be close to him. I wish I could offer more help.
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4437866 tn?1388119624
Thank you. I'll try to cuddle. He's been good at saying no so that helps. Lol. Mean doctors cutting me off the good stuff
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Boooo drs lol! Any chance you can at some point or is it off limits till after baby?
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3605625 tn?1385017548
Wow, that must be hard! There are other ways you could pleasure him, and enjoy lots of kisses and cuddles. I hope this isn't for the whole 9 months for you!!
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4437866 tn?1388119624
I hope its not. I may have to break a rule. I go back to the Dr next week. He held me all night last night and it was so sweet. I cried
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4437866 tn?1388119624
I hope its not. I may have to break a rule. I go back to the Dr next week. He held me all night last night and it was so sweet. I cried
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Awwwwwwwww :)
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I know what you mean about jumping the hubby lol and feeling the different kind of closeness you get with intimacy like that and my lovely hormones have been screaming too :' what about getting some nice oil and taking turns with massages? Maybe you could relax hope you get better and back to the fun soon :)
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554628 tn?1362777919
i was forbidden sex until this week thank goodness so from 12 weeks until 20 and now i cant have sex much but am allowed some lol. there was nothing that helped me, my hubby and i would cuddle and etc and spend as much time with one another as possible, but we did nothing bc even when doing stuff for him it just killed me more so we stopped it all ... good luck.
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3145189 tn?1343157421
couldn't do it.  I'm praying for you. :)  I cant resist my hubby... it's impossible.  I can't imagine not being able to.  
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