insecure

[Ma_Lily]

I am 15 weeks pregnant and I am paranoid cause I'm insecure and scare (about everything...) n so freaking hormonal.  I saw a message that said "how are you handsome" on my bf cell from a coded name. I wasnt going to snoop but It was bothering me so much and I didnt have the gut to confront him yet so I went into his phone n that message/thread was deleted... now that leads me to believe that hes hiding something, maybe nothing physical had happened but maybe this texting could leave to him cheating... I trust him, but he made a comment 2 days ago saying "we dont have sexual chemistry"...wtf I was so upset to hear that he felt that way since day one. Then y the hell r we together. .. anyways we worked it out... back to this coded woman who messaged him, I ask him indirectly about this woman who continues to message him n he said honey, are we supervising each others phone now? I wasnt slick enough to ask him further so here I am, depressed, psychotic n paranoid about my future in this relationship.  How can i overcome this

[ricoswifex30s]

The fact that ANY WOMAN had his number in the first place is a problem let alone call him handsome! I don't play that and we all no what those txt lead to so those of u who are ok with yall men out there flirting and doing god knows that else on their free time are really much too nice it's 2014 and women can do it just like men  no need to sit around and feel ugly fat and worthless for ANY man! Why or yourself thru that agony ?

[ricoswifex30s]

Let him know that u saw them n that u don't like it cuz if u don't this will get worst trust me and if he loves u he will chill out if hes careless n dont care then I'm sorry to say u have a lot of thinking to do it might be a long hard road ahead but DO NOT sit and t think u must allow  him to do this to you! Your pregnant and he should be on his best behavior shame on him! Do not be afraid to leave if this continues u deserve better i been thru this and luckily my hubby shapped up but we did have to take time off cuz he though I wouldn't leave and i did! He learned that life was just not the same w out me and the kids ... good luck

[gemz007]

Well I would not put up with that kind of behaviour from my husband lol. I wpuld demand him to give me his fone and I would text that woman and find out whats going on. How dare he say things like that to you while you are pregnant and already feeling insecure.  Some men make me wild. Don't put up with it. U deserve the truth and if u want to go thru his fone u can do. If he has nothing to hide then he wpuldnt mind.

[mommy2b1989]

Im not saying men r gonna be men n let it go. If my husband did that I wouldn't...but all I'm saying is some men do stupid stuff. So confront him or let it go. Either way its gonna be a pain. But I agree with the previous post he should have more respect for u!

[cecepretty]

Noo girl DO NOT feel psychotic kus u have the right to wonder wats going on and u have the right to b mad....that's not right how another woman has his # in the first place. ..and by him deleting it makes him look really suspicious....and noo don't listen to that **** that people say like men will b men so its Normal kus thats bull$hit....a real man that LOVES his lady and respects her wont have the balls to cheat. U need to confront him and ask why is there even another woman texting u in the first place...he must have gave her his #..., u don't deserve that especially the stress from it ....what an idiot of him

[mommy2b1989]

Uh for one...I know its gonna bother u but u have two options...confront him directly n make him answer n tell him how u feel about it. Oh let it go. .things r gonna happen like that with men hun...so u can choose to ignore since he's coming home to u....take ur time n make ur decision. Regardless since u found it its always going to be in the back of ur head. Just being honest...hope it works out for u.